Things I wish I knew before starting my kink-journey:
It is always okay to use your safeword, no matter how intense or light the scene is
You are gonna be into a lot more stuff then you originally thought, and that is okay
There are a lot of fake doms out there, protect yourself
Research safe kink practice, it's not just the Doms job to be aware of risks, it's yours too
You don't have to look or act a certain way to fit in a role, if the role resonates with you, that is enough
You do not have to feel guilty for being into certain things, even darker kinks
Communication is the most important thing. It doesn't matter if you have a hard time articulating yourself, trying to communicate will always be a good idea. A good partner will try their best to understand you
