#homoflexibility

there are some already

posting the second one that is not on tumblr yet:

HAPPY HOMOFLEXIBLE PRIDE DAY

Hey there! Thank you for your message. 

Sometimes this identity/term can be hard to understand, but while your friend is primarily attracted to women, there is also a part of her, which may not be felt often, where she feels attracted to men and those who identify differently (agender, for example). Think of it like a small possibility, or flexibility.

She may not be frequently attracted to men and those of other genders (other than female), so she may feel that bisexuality does not fit 100% and best describes her experiences and identity. Whereas, you on the other hand I am assuming it fits perfectly because this is how you feel majority of the time (attracted to both men and women, and people who identity differently). 

Some may feel that this identity erases bisexuals, which I can understand but I can also understand how homoflexibility may be a more accurate term for someone, especially when they are predominantly attracted to those of the same sex. 

Continued

I haven’t been with a man in 5 yrs and even though I am open to having sex with men I have never loved or been in a relationship with one, should I be calling my self bi? (2)

Hi there, sorry for the late reply! 

You could identify with homoflexibility. It is related to bisexuality, but it’s different. What it means is someone who is attracted primarily to members of the same sex, but occasionally attracted to members of the opposite sex AND/OR able to derive pleasure from romantic encounters with members of the opposite sex. 

Most often, people who may be homoflexible, identify as gay or lesbian, despite occasional relations with members of the opposite sex. 

But then again, if you only experience sexual attraction with men (not romantically), it could mean something else. You could identify with homoromantic bisexual, meaning you’re sexually attracted to both genders but only romantically to the same gender. 

I hope this helps! 

Hey there. 

Definitely, I think that homoflexibility is a good term to describe how you are feeling. As you say, you like boys most of the time and only girls sometimes, this is what homoflexibility is, when you feel/experience same-sex attraction most of the time, and only sometimes with a person of the opposite sex.

I hope this helps :)