John 14:1-3 Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in Me. In My Father's house, there are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me so that you also may be where I am. In the Jewish customs, these are the very words a young man would say to his fiancee. Once the suitor secured the hand of his bride, he would return to his father's house and build the additional room that would become their bridal suite. Couples move into the home of the groom's parents. When all is ready, he would come for her and take her to be with Him so that where he is,she would also be. This is the context of our relationship with Christ. He is the Bridegroom-as the Scriptures describes Him- and we- the church, the believers, those who believe and love Him,TRUE CHRISTIANS- are His bride. When Jesus uttered these statements in John, He was actually making a MARRIAGE PROPOSAL to us.... (I cried when I realized this, like any sensible woman would do on the day of her engagement). The truth is mankind's story began with marriage in the Garden of Eden and will also end in marriage (see the Book of Revelations). And yet, OUR GENERATION TODAY ARE ANXIOUS OF BEING SINGLE. This is a very sad reality: WE DO NOT REALLY ALLOW CHRIST TO HAVE FULL ACCESS IN OUR LIVES. WE DO NOT LONG FOR GOD IN THE SAME WAY WE LONG FOR OTHERS. That's why we end up in wrong relationships and being damaged in the process. Listen to this, especially dear young ones: THERE IS MORE TO OUR LIVES THAN THINKING ABOUT WHO WILL BE OUR FUTURE HUSBANDS/SPOUSE, WHEN AND WHERE SHALL WE MEET HIM/HER, ETC. If you feel so empty right now and you think that a relationship will fill the gap, YOU ARE GRAVELY MISTAKEN. Only Jesus can fill that chasm. If you feel so broken right now and you think that an affection from the opposite sex will make you whole, YOU ARE WRONG. The only way to heal that brokenness is by worshipping Jesus. I am figuratively flipping tables right now because I am saying this with a burning passion and a heavy burden in my heart. #holylonging