#hoeadvice

My plan to turn vanilla into sugar has ended horribly. It’s been six months and all I’ve gotten is a headache. I need some advice on how to better next time.

Background: Met B on bumble, he is 10 years my senior (super young, mistake #1), and works in the medical field. He makes about 200k a year and his family has money. He’s also very naive and an ass, no other woman in her right mind would date him. We’ve been together for 6 months and all I got was a $100 perfume set for my birthday that smelled disgusting. So disappointing.

I could have put more effort into the relationship I suppose, but I need a clear start-to-finish guide on turning vanilla into sugar.