#hnn help

Hey so people who are more experienced in dating. I've been trying dating apps, and I'm just, is it normal for the person to just be immediately trying to meet up? Like out of 3 times I've dared to actually match and talk with someone, two of them we barely have half of a conversation, honestly maybe not even that, and they're trying to meet in person. It keeps freaking me out like, beyond the fact it feels unsafe, I don't even have any indication if we might be able to hold a comfortable conversation for an extended time yet