(When your dad is grooming you and your mom resents you for it but she's also being hurt by him and you want to save her and protect her and be the man of the house, what you've father has denied you, be her good and normal daughter except you can't be all of that because you are just her daughter and more than wanting to be a mother she wants to be a wife which as much as you provide for her you can't ever give her the way your father can. Among other things.)