not sure if this counts as a straight answer but imagine a local band asks you last-minute to join as their bassist. theyâre all kinda fucked up emotionally, because their former bassist suddenly left to become a pop star. but especially the vocalist. You get to know them all, especially the vocalist, who has pretty severe abandonment issues, only exacerbated by this event. vocalist clearly had complex feelings for former bassist, and seems resigned to hate her but canât actually manage to do it. She never fully gets over it. 6 years later, vocalist reveals she has reconnected with former bassist and is having some sort of bizarre affair with her. Because of former bassistâs former betrayal and how much shit vocalist has talked about her, youâre predisposed to not trust her, and to be scared that this is going to turn sour. your suspicions are confirmed when former bassist hurts vocalistâs feelings and she relapses on coke. A few days later they are dating and your friend, prone to mood swings, is elated. A few weeks after that she wants former bassist to rejoin the band as a guitarist