#heartless apl

anyone can have empathy or compassion or respect without "love"

you can be social and have community and close relationships without having "love"

you can never experience "love" and still be kinder and treat people better than people who do experience it

and it doesn't make you evil

even if you don't experience empathy or any emotion like that it doesn't make you evil

not experiencing any emotions at all doesn't make you evil

and being empathetic and loving and compassionate doesn't make you immune to being evil or hurting people either

nothing is that black and white

love is in fact not what makes us human

it's literally just another emotion on the same level as all the others ... and not everyone experiences it, just like any other emotion

and while I'm at it there is nothing wrong with being anti social or having a hard time connecting with other people or having no desire for human connection

as long as you're not purposely hurting people, or unintentionally hurting people but never taking accountability or responsibility for it then you're doing okay

stay loveless stay heartless be social or anti social whatever it is you are

Aplatonic (apl for short) flags part 4 🍏🟩🟦🟪 (This set uses green+blue+purple, there’s another set that uses yellow for apl instead.) (Due to the image limit, this is split into 4 posts.)

loveless apl | lovequeer apl | heartless apl

There is also this alternative loveless apl flag

aplvague | caedplatonic

autiapl (1) | autiapl (2)

I’ll also note that some of these terms can have multiple names, with the “platonic”, “aplatonic”, & “apl” part being interchangeable. This isn’t applicable to every term though. I also chose not to list everything to try to keep it brief. So for example, loveless apl can also be called loveless aplatonic.

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[PT: Large Pixel Size Heartless A- Flags]

Heartless Ace ~ Heartless Aro

Heartless Apl ~ Heartless Aqp

Heartless Analt ~ Heartless Asen ~ Heartless Anae

Definition: One who is a- [attraction type], and feels separated from any or all forms of love. One may wish to reclaim the stereotype of being a “heartless a-spec”, or just otherwise feel connected to being ‘heartless’.

Credit to @ryanyflags for the atertiary flags. All I did was change the aqp to a gradient.

All flags are 3000x2000 pixels.

is like

so funny to me

you're the one being mean dawg how do you not see that

you're calling me and every other person that vibes with that post evil which is

exactly what I was saying we're not

I'm not calling loving people evil, we don't gotta be fighting you can just 👏 keep 👏 on 👏 scrolling

loveless and heartless folks are whimsical

you're magical

keep doing you

love isn't some bandaid that you can slap onto any situation to magically fix it, and intention doesn't even matter

actions do in fact have consequences and constantly upsetting and harming another person in the name of "love" is going to have the exact same effect as it would if you had neutral or negative intentions, because ultimately you're still hurting that person regardless of if you "meant to" or not

and calling something "love" doesn't make it comfortable or okay or enjoyable for the person on the receiving end

it just makes the person doing it feel better about themselves and that's just manipulation and abuse

Aplatonic (apl for short) flags part 2 ⭐️ (This set uses yellow, there’s another set that uses green+blue+purple for apl instead.) (Due to the image limit, this is split into 4 posts.)

loveless apl | lovequeer apl | heartless apl

aplvague | caedplatonic | autiapl

I’ll also note that some of these terms can have multiple names, with the “platonic”, “aplatonic”, & “apl” part being interchangeable. This isn’t applicable to every term though. I also chose not to list everything to try to keep it brief. So for example, loveless apl can also be called loveless aplatonic.

[Part 1]

This is part 2

[Part 3]