#hardly!

I wonder at times if there will come a day when folks who are not aromantic or asexual pause and think before voicing their so wanted opinions on how asexuality and aromanticism manifest and how they interact with one's queerness and direction in which their desires of either kind, if present, lean towards. The loudest ones are always the ones who have zero whatsoever connection to our demographic.

Today I was described as being in the ‘inner sanctum’ and also ‘intimate’ with Delays. 

also guys I forgot to tell you that yesterday I saw a guy I met at my sister's wedding last year AND HE IMMEDIATELY CAME OVER TO ME AND INITIATED CONVERSATION AND IT WASN'T JUST POLITE LIKE IT WAS A NICE CONVERSATION AND HE LAUGHED AT MY JOKES AND HE MADE LIKE A LITTLE CONSPIRATORIAL ONE WITH ME ABOUT SOMETHING AND HE JUST LOOKED AT ME AS IF IT WAS FOR MY BENEFIT AND AWW   AND HE SIDED WITH ME OVER CALVIN WHO ACTUALLY KNOWS HIM AND HE WAS HILARIOUS AND I SAT ON THE SEAT WHERE HIS FEET WERE AND HE DIDN'T MOVE THEM AND HIS LITTLE SISTER CAME OVER(we've hung out she's the best thing ever she's the most precocious six year old I've ever met she's like this mini genius and she plays pokemon and really likes Lion King) AND THEY WERE QUOTING LION KING AND SHE LIKE TACKLED HIM SINGING HAKUNA MATATA AND IT WAS THE CUTEST THING AND AFTERWARDS HE THOUGHT HE WAS LEAVING AND WE WERE STANDING BY THE DOOR AND I WAS BEING INTRODUCED TO AN OLD LADY AND  HE STOOD WITH ME AND HE HAS THE NICEST SMILE AND HE USED IT LIBERALLY AND HE ALWAYS MADE EYE CONTACT WITH ME AND he gave me a once over when he walked up to me but idk it didn't kill him (and looks a lot like his big brother who I fancied when I was six and is my brother-in-laws best friend[when Stephen lived over here we called James 'the boyfriend' because he phoned him every Sunday night and went over to visit him all the time] and who is now engaged, awksss) AND HIS FAMILY ARE REALLY AWESOME AND THEY ALL HAVE THIS GREAT RELATIONSHIP AND THEY'RE ALL BEAUTIFUL AND#