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Here was another question this time, from Blu to me

For when you have some time: tell me how you feel about the seven deadly sins...? and how they effect you in your real life?

Well the first thing I have to say here is that I don't believe in sin per se.  Not in a 'don't do these things or you'll end up in a fiery pit with a devil sticking a pitchfork up your ass' kind of way.  I see them as more of a 'Don't be an ass', and that moderation in all things is ok kind of way.  I certainly don't consciously go through my day with a "uh oh.. can't do that.. that's a sin!" attitude.  I am spiritual, not religious, and I try to live my life in a relatively 'do the right thing' kind of way.  I think the bible, as a piece of literature and pseudo history, is wonderful, but as a guideline for proper behaviour could have been written a lot shorter as "Don't be a dick - signed God"

As far as the individual 'sins' I'll list them below and describe how they do or don't apply to me in my life:

Pride:  I personally don't think pride should be on this list.  I think pride pushes people to do their best and to strive for something better, which, in my mind, is a good thing. I am proud of the things I have accomplished in my life.  My education, my job, my kids, having attracted a woman as amazing as you, my Blu, into my life.  I don't think I go to far with it though.. I'm a good sportsman when I win, a good loser when don't.  I don't put people down for not being as good as me at the things I excel at. Once again.. moderation..

Envy:  Other than a couple more inches on my legs, I don't really enjoy anyone much of anything. Ok.. maybe that's not quite true. I envy the people who live with or near you, my Blu.  The ones that get to see you every day, the ones that get to touch you, and hear you laugh or cry in person.  Them I do envy.  But I do not hunger for riches or fame that others have.  I am content in my life as it is.

Wrath:  I have a temper. not a big one.. but it does get the better of me sometimes. I do raise my voice, often when I feel I am not being heard or listened to. Rarely does my 'wrath' get raised and when it does, it's almost never about myself. If someone hurts someone I care about, that's a completely different kettle of fish.  You hurt my kids, or my family or my woman, you best start runnin.

Gluttony:  I could lose a few pounds.  I'll admit it. I could eat a bit less.  Maybe more veggies.  But don't worry, little one.. I won't get 'little' on you :) I'll always stay your snuggly teddy bear.

Lust:  Lust plays a big part in  my life.  I am a very sexual creature. I love touch, and kissing and sex. I like porn. I used to have a bit of a problem with porn actually.. borderin on addiction but I am much more reserved about it now.

Sloth:  I need to get off my ass a little more.  Ok.. maybe more than a little. I need to go for walks, ride my bike. Get my cardio up (#1 rule of the zombie apocalypse, you know)  I want to be healthy for you, my Blu.  I want a long, loving life with you. I also need to get off my ass and get things done.. I am a procrastinator.. and then have to rush around and get things done at the last minute, which  sometimes results in things being done half assed. I need to get the dishes done the night of and not leave them till tomorrow.. that kind of thing.

Greed: I don't think I'm greedy. I don't take more than my share, and I don't grasp for more and more money or possessions. If I need something, I will go get it, but I don't always have to have the biggest and the best of everything.   I like to share what I have with others.

Good morning my sweet Treasure.. I hope you slept well.  *leans in.. kisses your cheek and snuggles in with you for a bit longer.. I look forward to seeing you soon.

Well.. BluStorm, aka, Blu, my little one, did her introduction, so I guess it’s my turn. 

Well.. first of all.. I am the luckiest man and Dom on earth.  I have found my soulmate and perfect match.  My end and my beginning.  My Blu. We met in an online adult community called Redlight Centre.  She came into a club I ws DJing at and my world just kinda spun.. I knew this was someone special from the moment we first spoke.  My heart never looked back.

I am a Dominant and have been in the lifestyle on and off, depending on partners for almost 22 years with hiatuses in the middle for partners who’s vanilla nature I should have realized was going to be a problem, but that I sent my true nature aside for.  That’s actually a theme with me.  Even as a Dom I allowed myself to stray from my true nature.. get drawn into fantasies that were not my own for the sake of another. My Blu has helped me re-centre myself.. to be the real me.  She grounds me. Gives me focus. She shows me true devotion and love.  There’s nothing I could ask for that she isn’t.   Ok.. maybe a bit closer.. :)

I’m a 50 year old divorced professional and half time father. I’m active in the community and work in IT. I am busy and my life is hectic and scattered as anyone who knows me can attest. As i said.. She centres me.. keeps me level, calms me.

S. 2 hobbies

In my ‘spare time, I enjoy geocaching and fishing 

I. Last time I felt jealous and why 

Yesterday.. My Blu is still good friends with her ex.. they have an amazing relationship and he is a great support to her. Sometimes, when he’s there, doing things for her that I would be if I could be there, it catches me sideways, and I get jealous of him.  It should be me taking care of her, doing things for her, being her support and the one she turns to in a crisis... It will be, some day.. but right now.. I’m here.. and he’s there. Sigh.

R. Is cheating ever okay?

Not EVER.

H. Last person I hugged

In RLC, I hugged my Blu.. in the real world, I hugged my son on Tuesday. 

A. If I’m in love

I am completely head over heels in love with my beautiful, amazing Blu.

C. How long has it been since I’ve kissed?

In the real world, I have not been kissed in over 2.5 years.   

K. My full name

I think I am going to decline to answer this publicly   

O. Where I’d like to travel?

I’d like to take my sweet Blu to Tofino, British Columbia, Canada to sit in our cabin on the beach with a wood fire, a glass of wine and watch winter storms

R. Is cheating ever okay?