5 elements wedding
Sunrise ~โ~ "Air, water, earth, metal, fire" theme, 6am to 10am, August, volcanic island (maybe that slow, active volcanic eruption at Mauna Loa, Hawaiโi). Each partner forms a point of the 5 pointed star using the 4 Western elements and metal/mineral from the 5 Chinese elements, and the five of them will, each one, sigil protective wards around each of the other four, in keeping with the coven/relationship theme of bolstering their loved one's nondominant traits/abilities/adherences with each other partners' dominant traits/etc, which will keep each of the five harmoniously protected and in general good stead; focus on benefits running healthwise and being well materially provisioned outside the relationship--particularly by those outside it in fact. Relationship goals and so on really shouldn't be part of this warding, i.e. the marital vows should be separate and it's suggested to vow about always doing things like that for the others, and always doing their fifth of their polycule coven's magic in a state of true-heartedness (i.e. not defiling the self by being self-absorbed in love).
The meal will be five simple breakfast dishes taking after each element's tastes: yogic breathing to start, followed by water, slightly clay-dusted fruit, gold leaf, and afterward a course of smoking their own preferred smokables (or burning incense for non smokers). The location of the mealtable will be a geomagnetically active point in the above-named destination. The top tier of the wedding cake will be cut 5 ways for each of the 5 cake toppers, by each partner holding an implement of their element (air will have a knife of sterilized feather quill; water will quickly use an ice knife; metal will use whatever metal or mineral they like best eg gold or crystal; earth will use a wooden knife; fire will use a flame-heated wire garrote because anything larger, heated, would melt the whole tier).
