#guessing

Woman at the gym whom I’m friendly with. She’s brilliant, kind, etc etc etc. the flirting is pretty two-way. But she just reminds me of a former love.

I’m so self conscious about it and if we start dating I know all of my friends and family will notice.

Get out of my head and ask her out, or move on and keep searching?

Reddit consensus: OVERREACTING (YOR) (100% confidence)

Top comment: “Oh shit. You have a type. Make your move, dude.

I think YOR, but I don’t even know what your reaction is that I’m judging.”

Notable comment: “Very gentle YOR. You just have a type is all, nothing wrong with that. As long as you're not constantly comparing her to your ex and understand that just because they have similar physical features they are very much not the same person, you will be fine”

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it's not so about "see, I'm right!", it's more of... that's what I like to do, guessing and trying to understand...

if I guess wrongly, that means, I don't understand them that well,

then, I'll have to learn more, and observe more... that's all, till the next guess...

if I get it right, it simply means, I understand their intention...

simply cos, I like to watch thriller, 推理, and so on... so, it's like, I'm doing it on regular basis,

even while watching movie / tv series, I habitually will want to guess,

if I guess wrongly, like that lo~

hahahahahahaha!!!

the thing is, not many people may understand the fun from this,

so, lately, I'm exploring on the AI chat side,

and even from this, I learn something, gemini and the standard google AI behave differently!

and the AI told me, I can customize gemini, tonight I'm going to try!

I'll try customizing it to a witty british guy, with a little bit of sarcaism...