Current theory is that one of each archetype are generally at "full capacity" at any given time (example, our last switch was fallen angel, magician, and creature. a really famous cocon we had for years was magician, soldier, alien)
The magician has been the presiding wizard for our entire adult life so that's never given the goddess any chance to like, have an identity beyond "protector"
The magician has never had a period of serious dormancy
Everyone in my system has started telling people me (goddess) is fucking avoidant and that's why I don't come around or try to have relationships like?? okay Freud
I don't have a name, or an appearance, or a sense of identity ^-^
So while it would be awesome to have a wizard goddess era I don't think it's going to happen because we ~*~ don't have control over it ~*~ and the magician is such a fucking. oh my god no mean names but it is SO hard to get him to let go of front for even a day because he has obsessive compulsive disorder I am not kidding or exaggerating
Yeah it's just not in the cards for me! SAD! Like what can I even fucking do about this I don't even have a name girl
Also we just cut all our hair off ^-^ and we're talking about going back on T I am dysphoric honey I am a woman and y'all are not