#ghostly.asks

happy birthday!!! you’re amazing and i didn’t forget that part!

THANK YOU!!!! you're amazing too!!!

yay, thanks for asking!!

3. 3 films you could watch for the rest of your life and not get bored of?

suddenly i forget what movies are and if i've ever seen one. i'm not exactly a movie watcher! BUT i guess:

RHRN bc it is the closest i will ever get to attending a ghost concert

The Lovely Bones which is probably an odd choice but it is my go-to movie to ugly cry to. i'm not even the type of person who seeks out Sad Content to feel something and usually i actively avoid sad stuff.

aaaand i can't think of a third movie lmao

9. tell a story about your childhood

since 98% of it is horrific let me tell you a lovely memory! when i was little i was super scared of thunderstorms, I'd actually get myself so worked up i'd get panic attacks. then one day during a thunderstorm my mom made hot chocolate with whipped cream on top and she'd sit with me on the floor with our backs against the radiator, listening to the storm. she had her arm around me and it made me feel safe and protected. this would become our thunderstorm ritual and it made me lose my fear of them. nowadays i LOVE thunderstorms.

12. what’s some good advice you want to share?

2. show us a picture of your handwriting?

18. do you believe in ghosts and/or aliens?

38. fave song at the moment?

hewwo my lovely ghestie!! thanks for sending some in as well <3

2. show us a picture of your handwriting?

18. do you believe in ghosts and/or aliens?

not in the traditional movie ghost way as some opaque human-shaped apparition. but i do believe that our energy remains after we die. same with aliens, i don't believe in grey humanoid hollywood aliens but i do believe that there might be life out there in this vast universe.

38. fave song at the moment?

Ghost - Faith

6. what’s the best and worst part of being online/a creator(blogger/tumblr-er/etc)?

14. what’s something you’ve always wanted to do but maybe been to scared to do?

hi hello ghestie!! so nice of you to ask some back!!!! :D

1. what are 3 things you’d say shaped you into who you are?

(childhood) trauma, growing up poor and my autism diagnosis i received later in life. all three things combined made me who i am - sometimes for better and sometimes for worse.

for worse bc i still to this day need to work on the whole "receiving love is conditional" thing. i can't help waiting for the proverbial other shoe to drop. but!! i'm working on it and i've gotten a lot better about it :D

for better bc i stand up for myself and for others. i never wish to treat someone badly unless they've crossed the line first - then it's gloves off. i do not tolerate bullshit.

6. what's the best and worst part of being online/a creator(blogger/ tumblr-er/etc)?

the best part of being on tumblr is making friends you otherwise wouldn't have made. i have made very close friends on here, some whom i've known and talk to every day for 10 years.

the worst part is probably trying to keep up with posting things. but i've learned to not care that much anymore. if someone follows me, expecting me to put out content 24/7 then i hope they're hungry for NOTHING lmao

14. what's something you've always wanted to do but maybe been to scared to do?