WOMAN'S Perspective
"One time, there was a boy and girl who used to be a happy couple. All the girl knew was that her boy loved her very much. She was just an innocent yet naive girlfriend. She thought that a relationship should only be for two person, there would be no room left for the others. Well, she forgot time went by and what she believed had changed time to time." Lana always tells that story to women out there who has been being cheated. She will never be tired to retell it just to remind every woman in her surrounding that the love life they are dreaming of will be different from the reality they are going to face. "To believe in a dogma that a person would not be tempted by someone or something was a hyperreality for that time. But this girl was still in her faith. She believed that her boy was the nicest guy on earth who won't be caught in a beautiful affair, or tempted by his passion, writing. Her boy spent much of his time by writing a beautiful and meaningful love stories. He was like a prodigy who's going to get a Nobel from his magnificent writings. his fans were from many places in this little world. The said that what he had written touched their deepest heart and successfully knocked their hidden mind to realize what love should be. They did not even know what kind of love life their favorite writer was living in. They only believed if their beloved writer lived in a perfect love life so that he could write a meaningful love story. But was it true?" In a strong pause, Lana tries hard to hold her tears. She remembers every single detail of her husband's cheating. She could not finish her story. It is too hard for her to remember those things. It is too painful. She logs out from her own website and moves to her Tumblr account and writes: 'It is always hard to forget someone else's fault although he had said sorry and promised that he won't do the same mistake. To forgive is easier than to forget. What our mouth says is sometimes different from what our heart feels nor what our mind thinks.'
