#forevershameless

Hey girls. I just wanted to take the time to thank the both you for what you're doing. I know you get thank yous all the time, but still. This blog you two decided to create has kept me strong for so long now. For almost two years I battled with anorexia and thought I'd never return to my normal self. It's been about two years now and like I wanted, I'm back to old myself. I started going back to my old ways recently, but this kept me up. It's truely amazing what you guys do. You remind me that I am beautiful and I do deserve to be happy. Before, I was ashamed to admit that I had once been that ill. Now, because of you two I am forever shameless. So thank you so so so much.

This is so amazing. We are so glad we could help you so much!! That we could help anyone at all! We know we get busy and caught up in our lives but we try and keep up with the blog as much as possible!! thank you so much for these kind words, they really mean the world to us and keep us going and want to do more!! Keep your chin up, you deserve the world, and you are beautiful!

This story is kind of long so i'm going to make it as short as I can but I was dating this attractive Mormon kid and he is a virgin and on one of our dates things got a little steamy and he asked me to do stuff with him and for some stupid reason I did what he asked. Afterwards things were fine until he left then when he was texting me it wasn't the way he usually did. Couple days later I confronted him as to why he was acting this why and he told me it is because he was feeling guilty for what we had done. Then he has been ignoring me. He texted me once out of the blue making up excuses as to why we couldn't be together then when I gave up on him i told him i couldn't make him stay if he didn't want to then he told me he was scared of relationships and now he's not talking to me yet again. I don't know why but it still hurts really bad and when i'm alone I cry because i think about it more than when i'm doing something with people. I don't know if it hurts because I have no closure or because this is the third time a guy i've dated has completely ignored me when i don't think i've done nothing wrong.. I don't know what to do and i'm beginning to believe there is something completely wrong with me..

Advice: Realize that maybe that guy did feel really guilty for what yall did. Mormons are usually really intense with that kind of stuff! So thats on his part too, you cant blame yourself for that because he is the one that asked you to do it and didnt feel guilty at the time. Also i'm not saying this is the case, but maybe look at the pattern. if this same situation is happening every time, Maybe you need to take a second look at these guys to make sure they arent using you, or only talking to you with bad intentions. Like i said though, not saying that is the situation though. But yes, you are going to be hurt by this, because you do start liking the guy and then all of a sudden they are gone with no reason/explanation why, and no its not fair. But you need to bring yourself up and be an independent girl! Your don't need a guy to define you or even make you happy! learn to be happy on your own first and to be happy with yourself. Maybe take a break from guys for a while, and start concentrating on your dreams/life goals? guys will always be there, and love finds you. Just don't dwell on that mormon kid any more. you don't deserve to be ignored, or left in the dust with no explanation. He doesnt deserve your time unless he is going to treat you like a queen. Hope this helps love, keep your chin up!

I'm a senior in high school right now, I'm independent and I don't really care  what people think about me anymore....but sometimes I have a feeling that people are still talking about me....it starting to make me feel paranoid and making me feel like the friends that I have who are underclassmen don't really want to be my friends anymore....what do I do? Also, I've been single for a long time and it kills me to see high school couples all lovey-dovey with each other and I hate valentine's day for that same reason....I know people always say that high school couples don't last long....but I always feel like crap around valentine's....what should I do to make myself feel better? 

Advice: With your friends, If when you are feeling this way, you either need to pull them aside and talk to them about it, or maybe its time to get new ones. Always remember that everything changes after highschool, you move on and life gets alot easier and alot harder in different ways. But lets say youre going to college, its alot easier than highschool in my opinion in the social aspect. People are more grown up and its not about popularity or talking behind ppls backs anymore. Of course youre always going to have someone talking bad about you in life whether you are doing good or bad. You just have to tolerate it and not let it get to you! And with the relationship deal, Stop looking for love. It will find you i promise! At the beginning of highschool i had moved to houston, so i had to make a whole new group of friends, and i wanted a boyfriend so bad! but i was searching for one the whole time because i was jealous of the other couples. Finally one of my good and very wise friends Amadeus  Told me "Jamie Quit looking for love, love will find you" and i looked at him as my big brother so i listened to him. And only a few months later i met a guy, who i dated then for 3 years! Not saying it will happen that fast for anyone, but it will happen. Concentrate on other aspects of your life, like things you want to achieve! Have fun, don't think about finding someone, the opportunity will show itself at the right time, and when it does, take it!!