“What? Um—Nah, I wouldn’t say that. I mean, the bloke’s a reindeer, isn’t he? Not sure why you feel so bad even now, if I’m honest. Sounds right unsanitary, that does.”

“It’s just here, if you look. He was gadding about along that hill there, see, and we lost sight of him… oh, quarter of an hour ago. Might be in the forest now. With any luck the acromantulae haven’t nabbed ’im.”

It doesn’t matter that you already spent the money. No one gets refused a refund in any line of work because the seller “spent the money already.” When a customer cancels an order/commission/purchase/whatever, you owe them a full refund.

Here’s the link that you posted yourself:

https://www.ftc.gov/tips-advice/business-center/guidance/selling-internet-prompt-delivery-rules

Since you posted it I’m going to assume you must agree with what it says. Assuming you read it in full. If you have read it in full, you will know that it says the following:

If you can't ship within the promised time (or within 30 days if you made no promise), you must notify the customer of the delay, provide a revised shipment date and explain his right to cancel and get a full and prompt refund.

For definite delays of up to 30 days, you may treat the customer's silence as agreeing to the delay. But for longer or indefinite delays - and second and subsequent delays - you must get the customer's written, electronic or verbal consent to the delay. If the customer doesn't give you his okay, you must promptly refund all the money the customer paid you without being asked by the customer.

When asked to give a refund, within the given time it should take to finish your commission and give them the code, you must comply. You owe the person who asked for a refund their money back. If that quote is too long for you, here is a similar one from the same website (found here: https://www.ftc.gov/tips-advice/business-center/guidance/business-guide-ftcs-mail-internet-or-telephone-order):

You must cancel an order and provide a prompt refund when:

the customer exercises any option to cancel before you ship the merchandise;

That’s aside from the fact that you’re illegally selling stolen work. In which case anyone that has commissioned from you deserves their money back since you conned them. The excuse that you spent the money already isn’t good enough. You need to abide by the law.

These blogs say I use coding from other people who I have not been given permission or credited and that’s false. One maker made a public post to state that anyone can use any coding from her tutorials in any way because of this.

One maker giving you permission to learn from her tutorials does not mean you have permission from any other theme makers to steal their coding.

I have gone as far as to post excerpts of conversations with these friends and makers only to have those twisted in relentless posts in my tags for multiple accounts. My friends and people who have commissioned me for themes can’t even speak in my defense because these blogs start to tag them too.

You posted a small excerpt of a conversion with one person once. There wasn’t anything to twist since it wasn’t proof that you don’t steal. We’ve also never tagged your friends or people who have commissioned you. Stop lying.

I make a new blog and they stalk it, tag it, they just do not stop.

An anon told me your new URL so I tagged it because you only made that new Elsa blog to run away. Someone didn’t want you to get away with it. Why should you be left alone to continue stealing and making money from it? I’d also like to know what your definition of “stalk" is. Does it include you repeatedly checking my blog and omgfusiliers’? That’s what you’re accusing me of and as for tagging you, I started tagging you after you kept tagging me and visited my blog. So either you’re a stalker yourself, or your definition of “stalk” is wrong.

They’re using my rude and selfish actions in this fandom two years ago to justify their own; yes I took icons and used them as a base, I reposted them and called them my own. Yes I copied someone’s headcanon and reposted my own version as canon. Yes I made a muse identical to someone else’s

And stop. I’ve never mentioned any of that but I’m happy to post your confession. Depression and jealousy are not valid reasons to steal from people. Make excuses all you like but that’s all they are: excuses. You are an adult. You were an adult two years ago. That means that you and you alone are responsible and accountable for the things you choose to do. No excuses. As an adult you should have known better and if something was making you jealous, you should have taken a step back. You chose not to. Two years later, you’re still choosing to steal and this time you’re making money out of it.

People are going to hop on this new Jessica is a thief bandwagon like they did before

You don’t have control, though. We’d never send you asks because we want it all public for people to see what you do. Nice try. You managed to ramble on about some people not wanting credit for their tutorials, but you never addressed why you steal coding and pretend it’s yours. That’s the issue. It’s pretty simple, it shouldn’t take so many posts for you to grasp this. We’ve already said we don’t care that you use tutorials to learn from. What we care about is that you steal coding and then sell it as your own. You even remove credit from the codes so that people will think it’s yours.