Greetings and salutations to everyone on katsblr!
This place has become a cesspool of drama and stupidity, a part of me is glad that i’d left when i did, and another is just so incredibly disappointed in how this community had turned out.
I stated once on my old blog, if you recall, that I am a firm believer in never ever lying about your age to get into adult spaces. The fact that some people who’d liked, agreed, and gave bravos on that post, were actively deceiving individuals, is nothing short of ridiculous.
And as you may recall, I also made another post talking about boundaries. Minors do not interact is a boundary created by adults who do not wish for minors to be interacting with them—perhaps because they write and produce explicit content, those of which, minors should not be exposed to; or because they are simply uncomfortable with children interacting with them—I still stand by what I said, respecting this boundary and the individual who’d placed it, and I always will.
I was informed by a certain individual whom I will not name, though I am sure you’ve heard of considering the tirade that she’d been on for the past month or so, that certain adults have been bending their own rules to accommodate individuals under a certain age. Hypocritical, bewildering, and if I may say ever so bluntly, pathetic.
If you set up those boundaries, stick to them. You cannot create a rule for your space that is to involve all individuals from a certain group, only to then create exceptions “just because.” Even if you have a reason, it’s still dissembling. If you are to enforce a boundary, ensure that you yourself, are able to follow said boundary. If not, then why even create it in the first place? It reeks of the “holier-than-thou” mentality.
As for the individual herself, I am unsure if you’re reading this, but whether you are or aren’t, I hope you’re aware that you’re no better than the majority of people in this space. You are a minor, a child—no, I am not mentioning this as to diminish what you have to say, but to remind you that you have so much more to learn and a lot of growing up to do—so talking as though you’re looking down on people, just because you think you’re “better” than them, especially when certain issues don’t even include you or mention you in any shape or form, is just so undeniably pathetic.
Yes, I understand the feeling of being left out. We’ve all been there, we’ve all experienced that at some point in our lives. But whereas most people try to cultivate their own space where they can meet individuals alike, you let this feeling melt into bitterness, then try to advertise it as critique.
It’s beyond baffling, and though I am disappointed, I am not at the very least surprised. I have gathered from a handful of people that their very first interactions with you were full of you venting and oversharing certain aspects of your life, without even acknowledging whether or not it was okay.
I understand that, again, you are a minor, and a lot of these people who you look up to on this part of the internet are adults.
You’re seeking validation, honesty, and advice. But that does not at all justify jumping into conversations with heavy topics with complete strangers. Your issue is that you place people on this pedestal where they can do no wrong, then get disappointed when you realize that these internet strangers are just that.
Strangers on the internet with normal lives and issues of their own.
You’re not doing anything revolutionary for engaging in drama. If anything, it only shows how immature you are. You wish to be taken seriously, but you’re upset because certain people don’t wish to engage with you. So what? It’s this “what about me” mentality that is quite literally causing you to think that everyone is attacking you/against you—when in reality, nobody cares!
I’m sorry if that’s harsh, but since you feel as though you have the right to attack individuals, then consider it fair game.
Also, how are you doing defend a person who’s spreading hate and lies against someone you claim you idolize? I’ve since outgrown the idea of idolizing real people because at the end of the day, they’re just people, but even then, it’s baffling to me how you’re saying it’s “wrong” to call out someone for spewing venom, when the person themselves is doing the exact same.
Though, I do agree that it’s wrong to bash someone for their personal opinions—though calling whatever agenda they’re clearly trying to push an opinion is already extending too much grace, considering what they’re spreading is just shallow hostility—but I’m afraid this message is coming from the wrong messenger.
Hop off your high horse, get off tumblr, and get a life.
