#fitnah

“Jikalau kita letih karena kebaikan, maka sesungguhnya keletihan itu akan hilang dan buah kebaikannya akan kekal. Namun jikalau kita bersenang-senang dengan dosa, maka sesungguhnya kesenangan itu akan hilang dan dosanya akan kekal.” (Umar bin Khattab)

قال رجل لسعيد بن المسيب رحمه الله تعالى : يا سعيد في الفتنة يتبين لك من يعبد الله ممن يعبد الطاغوت

‘O Sa‘īd, during times of fitnah, it becomes clear to you who worships Allah and who worships the tāghūt.

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Digital Fairy Tales or Frightful Nightmares? Unmasking Creepypasta and Sprunki's Impact on Young Muslim Minds

Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim.

As-salamu alaykum, dear parents!

In my previous blog, we delved into the harrowing world of online predators and the insidious schemes of “love-trap” that threaten to sever our children from their faith. Today, I must shed light on another disturbing trend that has crept into the digital realms our little ones frequent – the sinister influences of Creepypasta and Sprunki.

At first glance, these platforms might seem harmless. Creepypasta, with its user-generated horror stories, and Sprunki, with its cute characters and addictive gameplay, can easily lure in unsuspecting children. The marketing is clever; the merchandise – plushies, stickers, hats – makes them seem like just another innocent trend. But beneath the surface lies a potential for harm that we, as Muslim parents, cannot afford to ignore.

The Dark Side of Creepypasta

So, what is the real truth about Creepypasta?

Creepypasta consists of horror-themed stories that can be disturbing and feature violence, terror, and psychological suffering. Prolonged exposure can cause anxiety, sleeplessness, and excessive worry. Some stories contain suicide or self-harm themes, which can be triggering. In some instances, children have been inspired by Creepypasta to commit violent acts.

These stories, often presented as real accounts, can blur the line between fiction and reality, especially for younger, more impressionable minds. The anonymity of the internet allows these stories to spread rapidly, making it difficult for parents to monitor what their children are exposed to.

Creepypasta’s cons are well-documented by psychologists and parents alike:

– Nightmares and insomnia: Children exposed to these horror stories often experience vivid nightmares, causing them to dread bedtime.

– Anxiety and fear: The continuous exposure to scary content can heighten generalized anxiety, making children fearful of ordinary things.

– Addictive consumption: Like a gripping novel, children get hooked, unable to stop reading or watching, which disrupts sleep and daily routines.

– Desensitization to fear and violence: Repeated exposure can numb children to fear, or worse, normalize frightening or violent imagery.

Sprunki: A Seemingly Sweet Addiction

Now, let’s turn our attention to Sprunki.

Sprunki, marketed with cute characters, can be addictive, leading to children spending excessive amounts of time playing, resulting in sleepless nights and neglecting other important activities. While some versions are designed to be kid-friendly, others contain themes that are unsuitable for children.

It’s colorful, fast-paced, and seemingly fun — but the cons are worrying:

– Highly addictive mechanics: Designed to keep children playing for hours, often late into the night.

– Sleep deprivation: Children lose precious sleep, leading to irritability, poor concentration, and weakened immunity.

– Behavioral issues: Parents report mood swings, defiance, and difficulty waking children in the mornings.

– Physical symptoms: Deep under-eye bags, exhaustion, and lethargy become visible signs.

Case Studies: Real-Life Impacts

I’ve seen firsthand the effects of these digital dangers. One young boy, after repeated exposure to Creepypasta, confessed to having intrusive thoughts of harming his parents. Astaghfirullah! Another child, caught in Sprunki’s addictive loop, struggled with severe sleep deprivation, exhibiting dark circles under his eyes and an inability to focus during the day.

These are not isolated incidents. They are warning signs that we, as parents, need to heed.

Why Do Parents Overlook These Dangers?

Many parents think, “It’s just a horror story or a game, like the ones I had growing up.” But the psychological impact today is far more profound. The digital immersion, combined with the addictive nature of these platforms, means children are not just watching or playing — they are deeply affected mentally and physically. Psychological research tells us that childhood is a critical period for emotional and cognitive development. Exposure to fear-inducing content without proper guidance can lead to anxiety disorders and sleep disturbances, which in turn affect academic performance, social interactions, and overall wellbeing.

Islamic Guidance and Parental Responsibility

The Qur’an reminds us: “O you who have believed, protect yourselves and your families from a Fire whose fuel is people and stones…” (Surah At-Tahrim 66:6)

Our duty is clear — to shield our children from harm, both seen and unseen. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: “Each of you is a shepherd, and each of you will be asked about his flock.” (Sahih al-Bukhari) Our children are our flocks entrusted to us by Allah, and we must be vigilant shepherds in this digital age.

Warning Signs: Is Your Child at Risk?

Sudden mood swings or increased irritability

Secrecy about online activities

Withdrawal from family and friends

Difficulty sleeping or frequent nightmares

Decline in academic performance

Increased anxiety or fearfulness

Obsessive talk about certain characters or stories

Strategies for Parents: Reclaiming Our Children’s Digital Spaces

Open Communication: Talk to your children about the dangers of the internet. Create a safe space where they can share their experiences without fear of judgment.

Education is Key: Educate yourself about the platforms your children are using. Understand the potential risks and learn how to mitigate them.

Parental Controls: Utilize parental control apps and settings to filter content and monitor your children’s online activity.

Time Limits: Set reasonable time limits for screen use and encourage other activities, such as outdoor play, reading, and spending time with family.

Prayer and Dhikr: Remind your children of the importance of prayer and remembrance of Allah. These practices can provide comfort and protection from negative influences.

Family Time: Prioritize family time and engage in activities that strengthen your bond. This will help create a sense of belonging and security for your children.

Be Vigilant: Stay informed about emerging online trends and potential threats. The digital landscape is constantly changing, so we must remain vigilant in our efforts to protect our children.

A Personal Dua for Our Ummah’s Children and Parents

O Allah, the Most Merciful, protect our children from the whispers of Shaytan and the shadows of this digital darkness. Strengthen their hearts with Iman, grant them peace in their sleep, and guide their steps upon Your path. Grant us wisdom, patience, and vigilance as we strive to nurture them in Your light. Ameen.

Dear parents, the digital world is full of fitnah, but with knowledge, faith, and firm action, we can guide our children from fitrah — their natural, pure state — and protect their souls and minds from harm. May Allah make it easy for us all.

Sayyida Al Salaam

Muslimah Counselor | Therapist

www.qalaqalnafsi.com

[email protected]

MENJAGA KEIMANAN DI TENGAH GELOMBANG FITNAH

Al Ustadz Dr. Firanda Andirja, M.A.

Diantara perkara-perkara yang bisa kita lakukan agar bisa bertahan dilautan fitnah syubhat dan syahwat, yaitu:

Pada akhirnya kamu akan paham, sebaik apapun dirimu akan ada satu atau dua orang yang tidak menyukai keberadaanmu, sekalipun kamu diam tanpa menjelaskan apapun kepadanya. Baginya kau adalah racun yang sangat membahayakan untuk hidupnya.

Tak apa, tak semua orang harus menyukaimu bukan? Dan tak semua orang harus selaras denganmu. Keberadaan mereka dan kebencian mereka akan tetap hidup sekalipun kamu menjelaskan dengan kebenaran.

Orang-orang yang memfitnah juga. Tak selamanya bisa kamu tanggapi dengan sebuah penjelasan sekalipun benar. Terkadang diam dan membiarkan mereka melakukan apa yang mereka inginkan agar kamu tak terlalu larut dalam permainan tersebut. Percayalah, seseorang yang baik agama, akhlak dan dalamnya ia perihal pemahaman tauhid. Akan paham bagaimana bersikap ketika ada sebuah kabar yang datang. Bagaimana harus bertabayun, mencari kebenaran dan menerima kebenaran itu sekalipun pahit untuknya.

Namun sebaliknya, orang-orang yang memang sudah berpenyakit hatinya, akan bersungut-sungut mencari kesalahanmu sampai ke akar-akarnya, dan tidak akan tenang sampai kamu pergi dari kehidupan mereka. Atau sampai kamu tidak lagi bisa diterima. Jadi, biarkan saja mereka dengan prasangka mereka yang berujung. Sebab kamu punya Allaah. Dzat yang maha adil. Tidak ada perbuatan keji yang luput dari sisiNya.

Ingatlah nasihat ini, sebuah nasihat dari Prof. Dr. Saad Al Khatslan hafidzahullaah ta'ala.

"Kualitas dan derajat akhlak seseorang akan terlihat ketika anda berselisih dengannya. Orang mulia akan tetap menghormati orang yang bermusuhan dengannya. Adapun orang yang tercela, akan berbuat buruk dalam permusuhan.

Nabi ﷺ telah menyebutkan bahwa tanda kemunafikan adalah jika seseorang bermusuhan, ia berbuat keburukan."

Barangkali mereka lupa, bahwasanya balasan kebaikan hanyalah kebaikan itu sendiri. Dan keburukanpun akan ada balasannya juga. Entah itu sekarang, esok ataupun nanti. Tidak ada yang terluput dari sisiNya.

Terimakasih sudah memilih tenang, dan menyerahkan segala kesakitan hatimu kepada Allaah. kamu paham sekali bahwa sesuatu yang dibawa kepada Allaah, tidak akan kembali dalam keadaan kosong. Semoga nantinya kebenaran akan terungkap, sekalipun orang lain yang akan mengungkapkan semuanya. Sekalipun kamu memilih diam, dan memilih riuh dalam doamu kepadaNya. Bukan sebab tak mampu, namun kamu paham. Cukuplah Allaah sebaik-baik penolong dan sebaik-baik pelindung.