#fill void

Be the girl he [past boyfriend in your life] fell in love with. Remember yourself, who you are, your values, and what you want. Don't sacrifice them for anyone else. Remember what made you happy before you started dating (aka achieving in school and sports, spending time with friends, having fun), and good things will happen to you. The more you think about finding a guy, the more you're forcing it and trying to fill a void rather than to find a guy who is an addition to your life.