#fictive heavy

Based on multiple instances

almost EVERYTHING we’ve interacted with, we have introjects from.

like having introjects niche fandoms is hard enough, but that’s not even the whole scope here. we have factives of random bloggers we follow. factives of people we’ve never even had a conversation with, and more often they aren’t even ‘popular’.

same goes for fictives, too - we have a lot of fictives of people’s ocs. not popular ocs, mind you, the ones that people just post on their blog occasionally. we have fictives of people’s ocs that only have one or two drawings to their name. sometimes we scroll toyhouse and get fictives from there.

this isn’t necessarily bad, at least for us - gaining new members isn’t painful - but. it gets to a point, yknow? We dont feel like we can talk about it. More often than not people get Really Weird about factives of themselves or fictives of their characters. All this fear about it would go away very fast if they didn’t do that! We can’t control it!

So anyways

Reminder to all systems

Don't let people tell you that what happens in your system is wrong and faking. Everyone is different. If you treat your headspace as if it was a real place, so what? Does it hurt someone? No! Have fun, you've been through enough already and you don't need to worry about if you're faking or not. You have typing quirks? So what? As long as you're being respectful and giving translations, you're not doing anything wrong! Your littles don't speak 'normally'? So what! If it's how they talk, it's how they talk!

You're perfect the way you are, not one system is the same <3/p