Happy WBW to all of our worldly writers!! This week is all about traditions: Are there certain milestones in life that require celebrations in your world? If weddings are a common thing, are there any special ceremonies leading up to the occasion, or at the altar itself? Are there some traditions that are considered outdated and cumbersome, and, on the flip side, are there traditions that are still sacred and important to the majority of people? - magic-is-something-we-create
Hey @alittlewarlord thank you for the ask! Fates is probably the best one for this, so:
Youâre considered an adult at the age of 20 in Vilandra, so I imagine thatâs when the biggest parties are thrown then. Alcohol is technically illegal until youâre 20 as well but obviously no one really cares about that (if the UK is anything to go by lmao).Â
The only real notable thing about weddings is that thereâs no sort of homophobia or anti-LGBT rhetoric, no one gives a shit about who you get married to and itâs all legal. What species you choose to marry, on the other hand, is a whole different ball game, so racism (species-ism?) is pretty rife. Some places are a bit more accepting (fey/human marriages or human/mixed marriages are a lot more common and accepted) but nothingâs technically illegal.Â
Speaking of outdated traditions, this was more for Xanâs family in particular, but there are some families who follow what they call âThe Old Ways,â where they insist on having blood heirs, as opposed to adopting an heir and them being seen as valid like everyone else does. So poor Xan is initially betrothed to Keon via heavy guilt tripping and pressure on him as the familyâs heir. Thankfully that all gets called off after his accident and he winds up with Sil, giving a big middle finger to âthe old ways.â
Sacred traditions! Everywhere celebrates the Solstice traditions twice a year, which is essentially Christmas (but twice a year!), but the ones they really hold sacred are the Northerners who preach Niamhâs will and taking care of their own. Theyâre an incredibly tight knit community in a very harsh landscape, so they always set a place at the table for The Stranger and welcome in anyone who needs them.Â