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I do not respond to flirty DMs/asks! “flirty” includes asking for encouragement, telling me abt ur personal experiences, etc (i do, however, enjoy ppl gushing abt their crushes — real or fictional)

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MY KINKS: stuffing, weight gain (one-sided & mutual), inflation, eructo/burping, intox (in relation to feedism), situational embarrassment/teasing/denial/pain of the feedist persuasion

NOT MY KINKS: emeto/vomit, eprocto/farting, vore, pregnancy, general whump, death feedism, pigplay, immobility, omorashi, oviposition. no hate, they just ain't for me

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CURRENTLY GETTING FREAKY ABOUT: nothin….for now

And remember..!

so as i recover i'm realizing there are a lot of things about this surgery that i never saw addressed in any article or post i looked up to try and prepare myself for what was to come. i'm a fat nb person who previously had 42DDD breasts, and has never been on T. i know that's not exactly the crowd most articles cater to, so uh here's some things i've learned. idk if it'll be helpful but i would have really liked to know these things prior

-before meeting with my doctor, i had no idea that big breasts get a different type of scar. you mostly see just the scars under the pectoral, but my breasts were so large that it was necessary to have additional scars running up vertically from those scars

-they don't make compression vests for curvy bodies. it will dig into your stomach and hurt a lot, so go ahead and cut up both sides of the zipper for some relief. you only need to the top two hooks hooked for good pressure anyway.

- the surgeon will mostly likely perform liposuction in areas around your chest. it's not uncommon to bleed from those areas the days after.

- you're gonna get really stinky cause you can't shower until you get your nipple covers off. invest in baby wipes and face cleansing wipes

- when you do shower, if you have drains in still, you're gonna need somewhere to hang the blood bags(grenades, if you will). i just tied a piece of ribbon around my waist and hooked em there.

- invest in a bunch of antibacterial non stick pads for your nips after the covers come off. you'll be glad you did.

- you're most likely not going to be able to wipe your own ass until they take off the nipple covers and remove at least one drainage tube. i know i couldn't. there are tools that assist in helping you wipe you can buy online, and i recommend investing in one of those too

- on the topic of pooping, the pain and anti nausea meds are going to block you up bad. drink mirilax daily and if worst comes to worst, use a suppository. being constipated for a week is miserable

- you're not gonna wanna eat, but it's super important you do, especially when you're taking your pain meds. eat something small with every dose or risk barfing