If I'm being completely honest I really think you should give him the benefit of the doubt (the easy thing would be to break up with him first but it's not a competition). You never really know, maybe he's going through something and just needs space. I know guys who would rather put a pause on a relationship then deal with their issues. So talk to him bc a relationship is a two way road it only works if both of you put the effort :)
I don't want to break up with him first though, because I'm hoping we can overcome the issue. The reason why he wants to break up is because he thinks I don't put in enough effort. I think he forgets that I have uni as a priority (unfortunately) and that we're in a long distance relationship. He's been distant for weeks now, and man, I've been putting in so much effort to try and keep this going. I've been planning to take him away on a weekend trip and I drive hours and hours to go see him...I'm just really hurt that he thinks I don't put in enough effort. Because man, I'm trying so hard. But it's not good enough.
