Hi Anons, thanks for stopping by! ā¤ļø I've answered this question many times š. Here's a past post where I answered it.
Iām new to OL fandom and started following recommended accounts on tumblr. But stopping most now as canāt handle the mean girls and their h
I blacked out the names of the Sam hater blogs because I don't want to give them air time on my blog. I don't ever go to their blogs, so I only find out the hate they're spewing if someone DMs it to me it sends it to my Inbox. I generally ignore it because they're a lost cause and I don't want to fill my blog with Bitter Betties.
I hope my past blog answers your questions. But here's a summary of the Sam hate blogs: they're all Extreme Shippers, Ex-Extreme Shippers, Shipper Sympathizers, who are pissed Sam is no longer the captain of their SamCait ship. If he helped to sink their ship, then they're going to sink him aka he's a player, he's gay, he's money hungry, he's a user, etc. NONE of which is true, of course. And the Mean Girls gravitate toward them and vice versa because they know they can snark and hate together. Also, some people who had a beef with me in the past, weaponize the groups above because they know they hate me since I was the FIRST to sink the SamCait ship with my source info.
Misery loves company and all that jazz. Sad, but true.
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I haven't posted all the screencaps I have...for reasons...so in the screencap where it says Karina came up to them, it's after all 3 had ALREADY been talking and then Karina walked off for a bit, the woman at the game continued talking to Sam, and Karina came back and walked up to them again. And that's when she said Karina seemed jealous that she was STILL talking to Sam. She said some other things but I'm still debating whether I'm going to post those screencaps or not.
I have more screencaps, some I've been asked not to post because of the identifying info...and some I may post later. But they are all 100% real.
I know it pisses certain haters off when I get a HUGE scoop like this one--cuz this was for sure a big scoop--CONFIRMATION by an IDENTIFIABLE person that Sam was WITH Karina at the Chargers game--but it does not change the fact that I'm telling the TRUTH.
It comes down to this: either you look at my record of accurate source info for the last 8 YEARS and know you can believe and trust me because I post FACTS from REAL SOURCES...OR you're an Extreme Shipper, Disgruntled Ex-Shipper or Purvsessed Hater who will never believe anything I post, which means you're a lost cause. Simple as that. š¤·āāļø
Do you think Sam should just say āthis is my new squeezeā ? and ignore all the backlash? If I was seeing Sam, I would just revel in his lusciousness and ignore ALL social media š¤£š¤£
No, because the abuse Extreme Shippers give any woman suspected of dating Sam is nothing compared to the abuse she gets once it's confirmed the woman is Sam's official girlfriend. Abbie Salt and Mackenzie Mauzy were harassed a million times more once it was clear they were Sam's girlfriend.
As for what you would do if you were Sam's girlfriend, that's what most of them have done...ignored the hate and enjoyed the Sam. š
PS. After Karina Elle resurfaced on her Instagram to reply to someone asking if she was dead by saying that she was "alive and happy," the hate from Extreme Shippers, Ex-Shippers, and Sam haters started back up again. Some things never change, sadly.
Sooooo, it was announced that Cait will attend the Outlander Season 6 premiere in London on February 24 VIRTUALLY and not in person. And some "fans" lost their shit.
And by fans, I mean Extreme Shippers and Ex-Shippers. š
Sooooo, Cait addressed it. š
And it got so bad and there was SO much chatter about it, that "CaitrĆona" is trending on Twitter! š
Hey, dumbasses, Cait is in Los Angeles and has been for some time. Psst, it's awards season. She and her costars and film, Belfast have been NOMINATED for the prestigious Screen Actors Guild Award, among many others. And the SAG Awards ceremony is on Feb. 27th in Los Angeles (Santa Monica, to be exact). Cait and her costars have been invited as PRESENTERS in PERSON. That is a HUGE DEAL.
How do you geniuses think she's going to fly 12 hours from L.A. to London to be there for the Outlander premiere TOMORROW and then fly 12 hours back, and account for the 8 hour time difference between L.A. and London, as well as there are REHEASALS before the SAG awards? Plus she has baby McGill with her. Huh, how would that be humanly possible, you insufferable, entitled, whiny morons? Well, it wouldn't be possible. And that's why Cait can't be at the London Outlander Season 6 premiere in person, but she will STILL participate virtually. It's not her fault that the awards season conflicts with Outlander Seasom 6 premiere. The scheduling wasn't done by her.
So, stop being the selfish assholes that you are for just one minute (I know it's hard for you to think of anyone but yourselves) and put yourselves in Cait's shoes. Her choice is: present in person with her cast mates for her OSCAR NOMINATED film, Belfast at the Screen Actors Guild Awards, where she is ALSO NOMINATED for an ACTING AWARD, that if she WINS, she would most likely prefer to ACCEPT in PERSON. And where she can network with her peers, including directors and producers, which could open more doors for her professionally. Or...fly 12 hours with a baby in tow to the Outlander premiere to rub elbows with so called fans, who have talked shit about her and her real husband, Tony for YEARS and where she has to answer the same idiotic questions about her "chemistry" with her costar, Sam. And she can still attend and be part of the premiere virtually?
Gee, it's a fucking NO BRAINER, geniuses.
Cait is doing the best she can and trying to make everyone happy. And this IS the best compromise. SAG Awards in person, OL premiere virtually. Her REAL fans understand and are happy for her.
The reality is that Extreme Shippers and Ex-Shippers are throwing a tantrum because this is MORE PROOF that Sam and Cait aren't a couple in real life. And that they won't have Sam and Cait together in person to play dress up dolls with. Simple as that. š¤·āāļø
Good morning! Received a mean spirited Anon message from someone who took offense that I commented that KE was the first person to like Sam's Thanksgiving IG post. It seems that since thousands also liked it KE couldn't be first. But she was. I saw it shortly after he posted it and she was the ONLY one to react to it when I saw it. Someone had to be first, right?? Her pic still shows up first in the list. Some people just don't use their brains these days.
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KE was not the first one to like Samās Thanksgiving post. Where did you get that ridiculous idea? Lots of other women liked it too. š¤¦š»āāļø
Extreme Shippers and disgruntled Ex-Shippers have been very, very angry for the last 8 years any time Sam is linked to not-Cait, so this is just par for the course. I'm used to it because I've gotten messages like that all day, every day for the last 8 years. Now I just laugh and laugh at how pressed they get. But, I understand how for someone who's not used to it, it can be really jarring.
Just think of them frothing away in their basement over two actors they don't even know and it becomes so ridiculous. Don't let them get to you, they're not worth it. š
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Sooooo, Anna Modler posted a latergram of a pic Sam took of her when they were on their romantic trip skiing in France....
And OF COURSE, the frothy, rabid, hyenas couldn't help themselves and descended en masse to attack Anna and Sam. š
Cherylcheryl aka Boot Sauce Punk leading the pack, as per usual. She really is a miserable, bitter bitch. As are the rest of them. š Yes, Anna is young, but she's an adult, and Sam is in great shape, and obviously feels younger than his years. I really don't see ANY problem. Except that ENVY and JEALOUSY consume some sad souls who thrive on being hateful. Sack of shit lives they lead. SMH.
Anna is CLEARLY Sam's type, and despite their age difference, they seem to have a lot in common.
She's sporty like he is. š
They like to frequent the same places when they're in Los Angeles, and both like to vacation in Tulum, Mexico. š
They both love road trips and motorcycles. š
And damn, if they both don't have GORGEOUS eyes. š Imagine if they procreated...š¶ā¤
They are both living their best lives, traveling, having new experiences and adventures. Not hurting anyone. AGAIN, I don't see ANY problem. If you have a problem with it, ask yourself what does two consenting adults with an age difference, enjoying their lives, trigger in YOU, to make you have such a negative reaction?
I'm obviously fine with Samodler and support happy Sam. Can't wait to see where they end up next!
P.S. Interestingly enough, Anna has the same birthday as Sam's ex, Abbie Salt, both Aquarius, as is Sam's other ex, Gia Marie. Aquarius are known to be super chill. Guess that helps offset the drama Sam gets from the fandom. š¤·āāļø
Finally home, as promised, here's the LATEST Monica Aksamit drama...
For those who donāt know, Monica is a 31 year old, 6 foot tall, American (of Polish descent) Olympic medalist in fencing, who mostly lives in New York. She and Sam Heughan used to mutually follow on social media, they flirted, DMāed, and talked about getting together in person the next time Sam was in New York, but that didnāt happen. Instead of MOVING ON, Monica went on an all out campaign to PUBLICLY badmouth him. Sam's "toxic" behavior was that he "led on" Monica, kept promising to meet up, never did, then still kept contacting her after. Psst, Monica, come a little closer, let me whisper in your ear, āHeās just not that into you.āĀ But Miss Thangās Olympic size ego couldnāt deal with that and she proceeded to smear Sam in a MONETIZED $$$ podcast on Apple and Spotify, as well as other outlets. More on that later... Eventually it all died down and we all went back to forgetting about her...guess that was the problem. So, a few days ago, Monica decided to resurrect her beef against Sam š Gee, what a coinky dink that she is trying to get attention again riiiiiight after she got eliminated as a contestant on the dating reality show āJoe Millionaire.ā Hmm.Ā
Click on Keep Reading for the rest of the post. Itās a long one, so put up your feet, and grab a beverage...
And guess WHOĀ befriended Monica and supported her bashing of Sam? None other than the biggest Outlander fandom Sam haters--Cant Resist Temptation and her Minions, who consist of Ex-Extreme SamCait Shippers, Shipper Sympathizers, and assorted fandom Mean Girls. The comments below belong to Monica aka mon mons right here on Tumblr. She left comments on CRTās Tumblr blog and is commiserating with other Sam haters about their mutual guilty pleasure--hating on Sam. š It says a lot about Monica's level of pettiness that sheās talking to FANS...I mean who does that? And on top of that, fans who clearly have a bias and an agenda. JS. But speaking of agenda...Monica knows all about it...$
And of course, the worst of the worst dedicated Sam haters, CRT, Bootsauce and Frenchy rabidly jump in to express their support of Monica. Just picture the DMās going back and forth between Monica and that group. I can almost smell the putrid froth from here. šĀ Theyāre all acting as if this is some #metoo type of abusive situation when the REALITY is SamāsĀ ājust not that into you,ā and Monica was butthurt and decided to make a mountain out of a molehill. Letās save the outrage for REAL victims of abuse. I hate when women play victim when theyāre anything but--takes credibility away from real victims. Iām not a Sam mommy, I donāt think he walks on water, and I know heās not a saint, BUT what happened between Sam and Monica did not warrant her vindictive actions. And worse, she used Sam to get her name out there, give herself more visibility, and make money. Thirsty doesnāt begin to cover it.Ā Ā
But, letās backtrack a bit and do a history lesson of how this all came to be. Like I said, a few years ago, Sam and Monica were mutually following on social media. If you do a search of Sam and Monicaās names on different social media platforms, youāll see some interactions that were friendly and flirty. Tumblr limits screencaps to 10, so Iām not posting those, but theyāre out there. At some point, Monica Tweeted that she needed help to have enough money to go to the Olympics (I canāt find that exact Tweet, so Iām assuming she deleted it). And Sam replied to her and retweeted her Tweet, thus giving her fundraising campaign FREE publicity, since his over 700,000 Twitter followers would see it. Monica got some hate from Extreme Shippers who donāt like it when Sam talks to pretty, sporty, young blondes, and she also interacted with some fans who showed her support. š As you can see, her Go Fund Me campaign exceeded expectations, and in no small part to the boost Sam gave her by Retweeting on his account.Ā
Weeelll, as the saying goes āno good deed goes unpunished,ā and things eventually went south between our two blonde giants. Sam and Monica continued to DM and flirt and made plans to get together whenever Sam was in New York next, but an in person date never came to fruition. Sam is VERY BUSY, so Iām not surprised, BUT, the reality is if a guy is into a woman he will MAKE THE TIME to see her. When Sam didnāt follow through on tentative plans, THAT should have been the signal to any woman who has dated human men, that, say it with me,Ā āheās just not that into you.ā But, guess Mon Mon didnāt get the ages old dating memo.
Should Sam have been direct and told her he actually wasnāt interested? In an ideal world, yes. But, as weāve seen, Sam is a people pleaser, doesnāt like anyone getting mad at him, and on top of that, heās a HUGE flirt, who doles out his ubiquitousĀ āletās meet for a wee dram the next time Iām in town,ā to any remotely attractive woman. Iām sure he figured when he didnāt actually SEE Monica IN PERSON, that she would get the message that it was a no go. But of course, thatās not what happened. Should Monica feel disappointed and upset that Sam made it seem like they were going to get together in person, continued to contact her, and then flaked? Of course, thatās an appropriate reaction. But once she figured out there was not going to be any Samonica, she should have put on her big girl panties and set her sights on someone who actually wanted to be with her. And realized what smart women with life experience know, when a man is into you, he will make the effort to SPEND TIME WITH YOU. Now you know.
What is NOT an appropriate reaction is what Monica ended up doing and continues to do. She went all over social media badmouthing Sam, acting like he was killing puppies FFS, AND created a podcast where she directly badmouths him and MADE MONEY OFF OF IT. š And sheās STILL badmouthing him. SMH.Ā
In her podcast, she talks about all the men who have wronged her (Gee, whoās the common denominator here?) but itās interesting that the ONLY one she has ever namedĀ is Sam, the one who is rich and famous and has tons of followers. Why hasnāt she mentioned the names of the other men? $$$ In the podcast, we find out exactly how over the top her reaction to what happened is. She admits that she used to āstalkā Samās whereabouts, she scoured the Internet to find out who else Sam had dated, going as far as reaching out to these women! (As an aside...2 of Samās exes she contacted blocked her). Well that sends a clear message on whose side they were on AND helps us gauge Monicaās level of crazy.
Eventually, after Monica gathered all her intel, she made the podcast where she PUBLICLY smears Samās name. Oh, and if Sam was such a terrible person and she didnāt want anything to do with him, how come she didnāt block him when she first made her podcast? (Now theyāve both mutually blocked) but as you can see below š SamĀ ālikedā one of her pics not long after all of this was happening. You canāt do that if youāre blocked. Also important to note, with few exceptions, ALL of Samās exes and ex flings still follow him on social media, including some of the women Monica talked to, like Georgia Ellenwood and Danielle Kling. If heās such a "toxic" man, why havenāt THEY blocked him?Ā
Monica has a right to be pissed off all she wants that Sam made promises to see her and then didnāt, but to then launch a public witch hunt against him is so OVER THE TOP and not commensurate at all with what actually happened. They never even met in person! The same way a woman has a right to change her mind, doesnāt a man have the same right? Sam thought he wanted to go on a date with Monica and then he CHANGED HIS MIND. Thatās not a crime. Or are some women under the impression that once he tells a woman "we should have a wee dram when I'm in town," he is OBLIGATED to go through with it? That sounds like forcing someone to do something they don't want to do just because there was a previous expectation. And that's NEVER acceptable for women or men. And given everything we now know about how Monica behaves, Sam had good instincts that she was a train wreck and he thankfully dodged a bullet.Ā
ALSO, she said Sam āthreatenedā her. Itās disconcerting that she used the word āthreatenā to describe Sam and his legal team warning her that they would pursue legal action if she continued to malign him publicly. But if weāre going to use emotion-laden words, with viscerally aggressive connotations, letās continue with āthreaten.ā SHE threatened him FIRST, she went after HIM. Um, she PUBLICLY smeared his name AKA his brand, of course he was going to defend himself. He had every right to have his legal team contact her letting her know that if she continued slandering him, they would report her to the Olympic Committee and Fencing Association for āconductā violation. Read their rules of conduct and she violated them with her libelous words against another person. In addition, it would be understandable if Sam decided to have a cease and desist order sent if she continued to publicly slander him, since it could have an effect on his career. That's not Sam "threatening" her, that's Sam protecting his livelihood.
Here she is encouraging people to promote the podcast where she bashes Sam and inciting them to "blow it up ladies" IOW make it go viral AKA witch hunt against Sam. And notice the shout out to follow her on all her social media accounts and "support this podcast." $$$ š
Every woman Sam has actually been in a relationship with (not just hit on in DMās) has nothing but nice things to say about him, and like I previously mentioned, the majority still follow him, that speaks volumes. Even, his ex Cody Kennedyās mom, Jinx Kennedy, saidĀ āI donāt have anything bad to say about Sam, he was a gentleman,ā and this was after Sam broke up with her daughter to go back to Abbie Salt! Again, that speaks volumes. Is Sam perfect? No. Can he be a douche? Of course. Heās a human male, they can all be douchy at some point from birth to death. But overall, he is a good guy, and the MAJORITY of people who know him attest to that. Itās sad that one bitter Betty, I mean miserable Monica took it so far, and for her own self-serving ulterior motives. $$$ Iām getting tired writing this...almost done.Ā
Hereās something thatās ironic. Monica criticized Sam for messaging her and then blowing her off, yet here she is rationalizing why itās okay for HER TO DO THE SAME THING. Hypocrite, much?Ā š
And for someone who claims to want to keep her private life private she sure DOES the OPPOSITE.Ā š Again, hypocrite, much? And she mentions she worries men will want to date her for theĀ āclout.ā Um, NO ONE knows who she is except Olympics fans...oh wait, NOW THEY DO, because she made sure of that by ranting and raving about SamĀ āghostingā her, MAKING MONEY off her association with Sam, and most recently, going on the nationally televised reality showĀ āJoe Millionaire.ā Which ironically is about MULTIPLE women trying to win the heart of a MILLIONAIRE...gold digger, give me my 15 minutes of fame, much? Literally 15 minutes on the show and she was the first one voted off by BOTH men. She claims itās because they both thought she was too tall...yeah, I guess it didnāt have anything to do with her off-putting personality and the ding ding ding bunny boiler alerts going off in both guysā heads at all. Sure, Jan.Ā
Monica keeps Tweeting that sheās a āstrong confident woman.ā She can SAY that all she likes, but her ACTIONS have shown us quite the OPPOSITE. How she dealt with being rejected by Sam has solidifiedĀ her reputation as a woman who is emotionally immature, petty, vindictive, bitter, stalkerish, fame-hungry, with a pinch of gold digger, and gives off red flags galore. Proceed with caution--if you piss her off, sheāll talk about you in her podcast and make money off you. Good luck finding any sane guy wanting to date this colossalĀ HOT MESS now. Way to go, Mon! š
I think itās ok that people are sad and itās ok that people say that out loud on sm but itās not ok to attack her
Agreed. My post wasn't directed at fans who wish Cait could be at the Outlander Season 6 premiere in person, are disappointed, but UNDERSTAND WHY she won't be there in person. It was directed at the jerks who are attacking her. And make no mistake, the ones attacking her are Extreme Shippers and Ex-Shippers who are pissed she's not going to be by Sam's side. That's what it comes down to.