@eximperial replied to your post âI came across your Harlots posts recently and Iâm digging them, thatâŚâ
I always felt that in order to get the truthful story, you needed to put together both of their pov of their relationship. I donât doubt that Margaret would have died if Lydia hadnât taken her in. HOWEVER, Lydia absolutely wrecked Margaret by pimping her out to men at the age of 10. Margaret has twisted it as kidnap in order to cope and get revenge. (1) (2) However, Lydia absolutely facilitated rape and absolutely should be blamed. The tragic thing in all of this is that Lydia thinks she did Margaret a service. It is strongly hinted at that Lydia had all of this done to her by her father, so she thinks she didnât do anything wrong. And I donât think anyone can convince her otherwise, which is really really sad. Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â Â (3) Itâs a blessing Margaret realized she was full of hate she needed to get rid of because it was destroying Lucy and Charlotte.
I disagree that Mags has twisted her history with Lydia into a story of kidnap; we know pretty clearly how Margaret wound up in Lydiaâs house, from Margaretâs own mouth, and I see no evidence that itâs been distorted as a coping mechanism or as justification for revenge. Lydia may have doted on Margaret in some respects, but she neither âtook her inâ nor forcibly kidnapped her; she bought her. âMy mother took me down St. Martinâs Lane. Sheâd spent every last farthing on her gin, the slut, and she was a bunter; no oneâd go near her. She sold me to a bawd for a pair of shoes. I was ten. ... [Mrs. Quigley] dressed me warm, she gave me a full meal. She said if I pleased her gentlemen, Iâd be her own sweet girl.â (1.01)
Blame is justifiably laid at Quigleyâs door for how Margaretâs life has turned out, and how thatâs trickled down to Charlotte and Lucy, but I donât think Margaret has edited her memory of the circumstances. She knows she was sold to Lydia, and she knows of other girls whom Lydia did overtly kidnap through drugs / trickery / etc., and she hates Lydia for all of this, rightfully so.
But I do completely agree that Lydia legitimately believes that sheâs done Margaret (and other girls, like Abigail Warren) a favor by forcing them into this business regardless of their age or will. Itâs incredible how deeply sheâs internalized this belief, and yeah, I think it stems from abuse at the hands of her father. âI thank him every day for the knowledge that he gave me. He taught me that love is strongest when itâs cruel. He gave me fortitude. Iâve given that legacy to all my girls. Itâs the lesson I was teaching you.â (2.06)
Just dark and sad and disturbing all around. :/















