I think that's a big part of why I'm drawn to Gilpanda's work. I'm not usually one for weight gain stuff, but a number of their tf comics are less about punishment (Though some are) and more about giving people something they want. They enjoy the process, and are happy with what they've become.
I like both con and non-con in my fiction. Sometimes I want cute, cuddly loving characters, and sometimes I want uncaring demons.
But I get the idea of like uh. Both attract a certain sort of person don’t they? People deny it to be true, but in my personal experience, and hearing the stories of friends who enjoy both themes:It does. Non-con especially attracts hell-people I fucking can’t stand.
The important thing is to not project their problems on yourself if you’re already mature about it.
I dunno if that’s what you were getting at, but I felt like it was important to mention.
