#excessadmin

This is a safe place. If a plot, character, event, etc. makes you uncomfortable let us know! There’s no shame in that! What is shameful is anonymously messaging someone/attacking them. It’s cowardly.

this all began yesterday, tuesday, july 2nd, when an ic rumor was spread on the dash. now, we’re no strangers to ic rumors here; we love them. we love ic drama. however, this particular mun was not asked about a hurtful rumor being spread about their muse beforehand, so they were uncomfortable and upset, which is completely understandable. they came to me, dani, the admin, because that’s what you’re supposed to do. i’m here to help resolve drama and get to the bottom of things ( and good god, i really did with the help of our members and the other admins. ) 

here are screenshots of me speaking to said member:

after they expressed that they’d like me to speak the mun, em, i messaged her-- very politely, i might add--- which i’ll provide screenshots of right now:

see ? polite af on my end. not once did i snap or accuse her of anything. and i thought that was the end of it. the mun that had had rumors spread about their muse was back online, and everything seemed just peachy. come to find out, when em said she spoke to the mun about it, she really meant that she gave a short, bullshit apology just to be able to say she did so. 

think i don’t have screenshots of that ? i do. here they are !

although it was a half-assed apology, that should’ve been that. but then the mun got an anonymous message:

now, admittedly, my first thought was that it was em. and maybe that was wrong of me to think right off the bat. i shouldn’t just assume that someone is doing something as serious as sending anon hate to my members. but i was right. it most definitely was em sending hurtful messages like this.

because this entire time, she was having a great time talking shit:

you sure used the word joke a lot, em. you expect me to believe that it was a coincidence that that’s exactly what the anon hate sent to they said ? and you’re talking shit about them ?

so mad, right ? mad enough to send anon hate ? i definitely think so. and this whole blocking and blacklisting people you don’t like is tired. you’ve been doing it since the first time you were here under the alias sybbie. 

“really doubt she got any anon hate”. you know what ? you’re right. i didn’t. but you knew that, didn’t you ? because you’re the one sending anon hate, and you didn’t send shit to me. you weren’t even online, but just minutes before, you reblogged a picture on your muse’s-- vesper’s-- blog, em. if you’re going to lie, you can at least try and keep things consistent. and i’m not even mentioning the various screencaps i have of you talking shit about my other members since you don’t know there’s a line between ic and ooc interactions. 

you said it yourself two screenshots ago: you graduated high school so long ago. you’re what ? 28 ? 29 ? grow the hell up already. i am nineteen and handling this way more maturely than you could ever hope to.

so, ultimately, i made the decision to remove you from the roleplay. i’ve seen the hurtful things you’ve said behind people’s back, i came to the obvious conclusion that you’ve been sending anon hate, and i very politely ( probably too politely ) told you that we’d be posting your unfollows:

i have never been anything but kind and welcoming to you, but you take ic things personally. every time you show up in this rp, there is constant anon hate to my members. i will no longer allow you to play the victim when all the facts are here. there is so, so much more i could say about you and the hurtful things you’ve said about my members, but i am a kind person, and i’m only going to show the facts of the matter at hand. 

i gave you a chance to communicate. you gave a half-assed apology and responded to me with one sentence. i gave you a chance to come back to this roleplay after the first time you came here and started blocking people left and right because you were butthurt. i gave you multiple chances to come be a part of this very loving, very loyal group of amazing writers, but you decided to take it upon yourself to spread your narrative of manipulation and hate instead of a narrative of coming together to write incredible, thrilling stories about characters that i gave you the liberty to create. and that is something i will stand for no longer. and i ask you, please, do not send any of my members any more anon hate. grow up, stop lying, and move on from this. 

and now you’re mad enough to go around talking to rpt’s about us because we’re attacking you for being right and finally standing up against you ? bye.

i’m on vacation and can’t get on and haley is having surgery tomorrow and is gonna need time to recover and it just seems like everythin’s hittin us all at once !

For example,

21 pilots- FRANKIE