hey guys ! my sincerest apologies for everything going on on the dash right now. iâm going to be making one last post about this so we can clear up confusion / have a psa up about this particular mun who likes to join rps and spread hate when she doesnât get the attention she wants. under the cut, iâve written up a brief explanation of whatâs been going on with me and the admin team, complete with screenshots to prove this munâs wrongdoing.Â
this all began yesterday, tuesday, july 2nd, when an ic rumor was spread on the dash. now, weâre no strangers to ic rumors here; we love them. we love ic drama. however, this particular mun was not asked about a hurtful rumor being spread about their muse beforehand, so they were uncomfortable and upset, which is completely understandable. they came to me, dani, the admin, because thatâs what youâre supposed to do. iâm here to help resolve drama and get to the bottom of things ( and good god, i really did with the help of our members and the other admins. )Â
here are screenshots of me speaking to said member:
after they expressed that theyâd like me to speak the mun, em, i messaged her-- very politely, i might add--- which iâll provide screenshots of right now:
see ? polite af on my end. not once did i snap or accuse her of anything. and i thought that was the end of it. the mun that had had rumors spread about their muse was back online, and everything seemed just peachy. come to find out, when em said she spoke to the mun about it, she really meant that she gave a short, bullshit apology just to be able to say she did so.Â
think i donât have screenshots of that ? i do. here they are !
although it was a half-assed apology, that shouldâve been that. but then the mun got an anonymous message:
now, admittedly, my first thought was that it was em. and maybe that was wrong of me to think right off the bat. i shouldnât just assume that someone is doing something as serious as sending anon hate to my members. but i was right. it most definitely was em sending hurtful messages like this.
because this entire time, she was having a great time talking shit:
you sure used the word joke a lot, em. you expect me to believe that it was a coincidence that thatâs exactly what the anon hate sent to they said ? and youâre talking shit about them ?
so mad, right ? mad enough to send anon hate ? i definitely think so. and this whole blocking and blacklisting people you donât like is tired. youâve been doing it since the first time you were here under the alias sybbie.Â
âreally doubt she got any anon hateâ. you know what ? youâre right. i didnât. but you knew that, didnât you ? because youâre the one sending anon hate, and you didnât send shit to me. you werenât even online, but just minutes before, you reblogged a picture on your museâs-- vesperâs-- blog, em. if youâre going to lie, you can at least try and keep things consistent. and iâm not even mentioning the various screencaps i have of you talking shit about my other members since you donât know thereâs a line between ic and ooc interactions.Â
you said it yourself two screenshots ago: you graduated high school so long ago. youâre what ? 28 ? 29 ? grow the hell up already. i am nineteen and handling this way more maturely than you could ever hope to.
so, ultimately, i made the decision to remove you from the roleplay. iâve seen the hurtful things youâve said behind peopleâs back, i came to the obvious conclusion that youâve been sending anon hate, and i very politely ( probably too politely ) told you that weâd be posting your unfollows:
i have never been anything but kind and welcoming to you, but you take ic things personally. every time you show up in this rp, there is constant anon hate to my members. i will no longer allow you to play the victim when all the facts are here. there is so, so much more i could say about you and the hurtful things youâve said about my members, but i am a kind person, and iâm only going to show the facts of the matter at hand.Â
i gave you a chance to communicate. you gave a half-assed apology and responded to me with one sentence. i gave you a chance to come back to this roleplay after the first time you came here and started blocking people left and right because you were butthurt. i gave you multiple chances to come be a part of this very loving, very loyal group of amazing writers, but you decided to take it upon yourself to spread your narrative of manipulation and hate instead of a narrative of coming together to write incredible, thrilling stories about characters that i gave you the liberty to create. and that is something i will stand for no longer. and i ask you, please, do not send any of my members any more anon hate. grow up, stop lying, and move on from this.Â
and now youâre mad enough to go around talking to rptâs about us because weâre attacking you for being right and finally standing up against you ? bye.