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I've been trying to stay away from that drama involving Peeta's sexuality. I haven't said a word about this in my blog in so long. But since there are still people sending me hate, judging me and even going so far as to make FALSE ACCUSATIONS ABOUT ME, I'd like to clarify a few things:

- I don't have any sideblog. @bestloversfan is the only blog I've ever had on tumblr. So if you believe that I created another account in order to spew hate and throw shade at people, YOU'RE WRONG. That's not true at all, and I would never do that. I'm not that kind of person.

- I've never sent anyone hateful messages/asks. All I said about this topic was in my own blog. So if you believe that I sent anyone hate, YOU'RE WRONG. I would never do that.

- I don't conspire against others. I don't speak ill of people I was friends with behind their backs. I don't "spy" on anyone. If you believe that I do any of these things, YOU'RE WRONG.

- I'm not homophobic. I don't hate gay people. Actually, I've always defended their rights (since long before it was "cool"), and I even helped some friends of mine in their process of coming out. I'm far from being homophobic, and anyone who knows me in real life knows that. I just don't believe that Peeta being bisexual is canon, because I think that him being straight is what is most supported by the text. He's always loved a girl (Katniss), and he said that he noticed just about every GIRL.There's nothing suggesting he liked guys too, so to me, him being straight is canon. No one has to agree with me, but I explained my point of view MULTIPLE TIMES. It has nothing to do with homophobia, so saying that I'm homophobic is unfair and doesn't make sense.

- When this drama started, two months ago, I blocked a few people. But not because "they're gay", or because "I couldn't handle a different opinion". I blocked them because they were coming TO MY BLOG to insult me (I was called homophobic, and to me, this is very insulting), and/or to shove their opinion down my throat. And none of them was a friend of mine, or even a follower of mine (one of them used to follow me, but they unfollowed me before the argument). I was feeling so anxious (I have Generalized Anxiety Disorder), and I had a hard time dealing with that situation. So I did what I thought that could help me calm down at that moment, and I wasn't the only one doing that. Many people blocked people at that time as well. But a few days later, I unblocked all of the people I had blocked. I didn't have to, since I’m entitled to block whoever I want in my blog, and since none of them were my follower/my friend. But I did. So if you believe that I blocked people because I'm prejudiced against their sexual orientation, or because I'm intolerant, YOU'RE WRONG.

This post got longer than I intended to, but I hope things are clearer now. I don't mean to start an argument, or to discuss that headcanon for the millionth time. So, please, don't stir up drama in this post. I'm just DEFENDING MYSELF from false, unfair accusations, and I'm being very honest here. If you're willing to consider the other side of the story, and to rethink about your judgements and your assumptions about people you don't know (I'm not the only one getting hate and being falsely accused here), that's cool. Maybe we can talk. But if you just want to send people hate, call them homophobic and make false accusations against them, please just stay away from this post, and from my blog. I'm really sick of that hate.

you guys!!

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