Daddyz Guest Writerz: Mistakes and Morals by Eventually Elle
How many mistakes can you make?
Ask me, I don’t follow the theory of learning from one’s mistakes. Inspite of having made a certain mistake, I have continued to repeat it and, well, if it works for one person, it may not for another.
Making mistakes like the petty ones you do every day, or the wrong decisions you take, or decisions that matter professionally, could make or break you.
But what about the ones you make personally? It is ok to forgive yourself, I read it somewhere, and, yes I agree. The most damage is done when we waste time thinking about what we could have done right, and not what can be done to make it right, right now.
Living in the past can be as dangerous as procrastination.
And, what is the guarantee that if you learn from “Mistake A” you won’t ever make “Mistake B”? None. So, well, the moral of the story is to learn from every day happenings, and ponder what can be done to make it better. Like constantly coming up with ideas to make something better, not right.
Gradually, you will end up with a clearer head and guilt-free conscience, and will not live in the fear of making mistakes.
Forgiveness exists, but, you know, nowadays it’s more of a choice, I feel.
Keep on moving, there’s always someone to watch and learn from, and someone who’s surely got your back.
– E
