We grow attached to others and become afraid to part because we think weāll lose ourselvesāeven if you believe you two are meant to be, and even if you no longer feel what you once felt. Thatās the thing when you choose to be with someone: youĀ thinkĀ youāre either giving him or her pieces of yourself, or giving up your entire self. But itās only an illusion that comes with being vulnerable, letting your guard down, being openāwhich is important, but theĀ actualĀ youĀ will be always there. Itās that lonely and weak part of ourselves that always wants to attach itself to something or someone in order to feel complete, and we get used to the feeling, and itās the fear of loss that makes us hold onā only the strong ones are able to let go. But no one will ever make you complete. They can provide you with strength or courage, or help lead you on your way, but after everything is said and done, only you can fill in the gap yourself.
