TASK 002 ; THE GRAVES FAMILY â
henry leland graves â deceased. â colin firth jo viviane graves ( nee;Â gallagher ) â sela ward leland warner graves â ben barnes owen henry graves â xavier samuelÂ
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Where was your muse born?
london, england.
Were they the first born, middle or youngest? Are they an only child? Adopted?
leland ( 36 ) is the first born, followed by his younger brother; owen ( 34 ).
Does your muse have a favorite memory with their family?
the most fond memories with his family had to be centred around their summers which typically included visiting his paternal grandparents ( who had relocated to france a few years after his birth ).
Does your muse get along with their family? What is the family dynamic?
the family dynamic was pretty healthy, to be honest. from what he can recall, his father was absolutely obsessed with their mother; always bringing home flowers, her favourite snack, or just verbalizing how much he cared about her. both of his parents were pretty easy going, extremely loving, and saw family time as the upmost importance. they supported their kids as best as they could, signed them up for any sport or interest that they had at the time, and talked to them normally; not emphasizing that they were children. both henry and jo both found it important that the kids had basic skills; from learning two languages, to knowing how to sew a button onto a pair of pants. their goal was to create to young men who were pretty well rounded, and well mannered.Â
the relationship between brothers is fairly clichĂŠ; moments of play, moments of fights. but over all, their relationship was pretty strong. they were essentially each others best friends growing up, especially once they moved ( only being a few years apart ). they made friends with similar friend groups, and owen would always sit in on lelandâs band rehearsals in the garage.Â
as leland grew older, and once he moved away, his contact with his family slightly dimmed. he would see them for the important holidays, and they understood that he was busy between all of his commitments; but once his substance abuse became a true issue, the communication definitely lowered. as of recently, he has barely touched based, still being a little ashamed of what has transpired. he lets them know the most minimal details; how he is ( which is usually skewed in some way ), where heâs currently living, that sort of thing.Â
Does your muse have a favorite family member? Why?
itâs hard for him to place one above the other, since he adores them all for different reasons. but leland would say that both of his parents are stuck in that position. his father was a musician, and taught him piano at an early age. he was a very involved dad; always showing up for the kids as much as he possibly could, and making sure they got the attention they craved. but henry put his wife above all else, and that was a very important lesson for leland to watch.Â
with his mother, her resilience to continue on and support her family ( especially in trying times ), was always something leland respected. she put them first, made sure they were well looked after, and had everything they needed to live comfortably ( even if that meant sacrificing some time to take on extra responsibilities as work ).Â
Best family vacation? The worst?
the best vacation that the graves family ended up taking was probably their trip to disneyland paris. the boys had wanted to go for quite some time, and it actually was the last trip the family took together prior to their father passing away.Â
the worst had to be the one time they tried camping. it rained the whole weekend, and it was so bloody cold because of that, that they ended up packing up and going home a lot earlier than planned. leland still isnât the biggest fan of camping.Â
Who does your muse take after more? Any habits?
if anything, leland strives to be half of the man his father was. his loyalty definitely comes from witnessing henry bend over backwards for anyone he considered dear to his heart. but even in a more detailed fashion, when he plays musicâ he stands like his father did, and he has the most concentrated expression upon his face while he plays.
additionally, his mother had a huge tendency to play with her hair, and leland definitely picked up on that one pretty quickly.Â
Favorite and/or least favorite family traditions?
as simplistic as it may be, one of lelandâs favourite traditions was that every saturday morning there would always be a stack of freshly made pancakes. his mother made the best pancakes around, in his opinionâ and he tries to keep up the with tradition still to this day.Â
his least favourite tradition would have to go to his mother insisting that owen and himself posed beside each other every year on their first day of school. leland just found it to be incredibly cringe-worthy, especially as he became a teenager.Â
Is there a family game night? What was the board game of choice? How did it go over?
game night wasnât really a regular thing in their household; movie nights were more up their alley. but on the rare occasion that they did play, it was probably something like jenga.Â
Who has the weakest bladder on road trips?
his brother owen definitely takes the cake for that one; but mind you, his belief in that is purely based on trips taken as kids. though, leland will never let that go.Â











