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i hate the word “spicy” so much, oh my god. say erotic, sexy, sexual, horny, sensual, hot, attractive, literally anything else. i’m only fucking with spicy if it’s on a menu

personally- even though i am just as bad at socializing online as off- the internet is an inherently social space to me. it really upsets me seeing how many people don’t want to engage with that, and i don’t even believe it’s their fault. lurkerlife4ever. i believe it’s the fault of modern web design, modern app design (seo, algorithms, etc, i don’t know their umbrella terms) and how it keeps pushing people to react react react and scroll scroll scroll. people can’t have a conversation, they can’t linger, if they believe they don’t have the time. hell, some of the infinite scroll socials will even bump the page for you if you take too long reading comments or replaying a video