#escaping control

Abuse isn't always about strict orders or direct commands. Many times, it's about creating an illusion of choice. They manipulate you into thinking you have a say, but their constant criticism and emotional attacks steer you toward doing exactly what they want. It's control without the appearance of control. Awareness is key to breaking free.

An abuser creates an environment in which they are the sole source of solace or comfort to their partner. So, you work hard to preserve the relationship as it is your only means of maintaining connection and fulfilling the deep and human need to belong.

Protect your heart fiercely from those who don’t appreciate it. 💖