Does anyone else find it weird that we associate femininity and true womanhood with pain
But youâre a woman and these are the cornerstones of womanhood so suck it up and donât you dare cry about it
Donât seek relief for menstrual pain and epidurals during labour are shameful
Youâre supposed to do this itâs your divine feminine itâs your duty to God itâs normal and natural
Like growing up I was taught all of this
And it is normal and natural but if we could stop associating womanhoodâs highest honors with the bodyâs capabilities and pain then I think people would be happier
Also while weâre here why do we always clutch our pearls about young women ruining their bodies instead of making life choices that we might not agree with
Donât take testosterone youâre ruining your precious womb your wonderful ovaries your divine vagina
Donât get an abortion youâre destined to be a mother someday so why not now
Donât get your tubes tied your husband wonât like that
Donât remove your breasts or reproductive parts I know you have cancer but you want to preserve that pretty body of yours
Iâve heard all of these why do we continue to do this to women
Why do you continue to place all value of being a woman into the body like thatâs the only thing that matters
Not hopes not dreams not aspirations just what can you do for a man what can you do as a broodmare what can your body do to arouse lust in a man