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       In our life, our number one way to gain money is to work. For us to have money, we should sacrifice, work hard and focus on the work. Philippines is still a developing country and Filipino people must really work to survive. But what if a parent must leave his/her family for money? What if a parent chooses to be an OFW or Overseas Filipino Workers. Will there be a problem?

        According to the Philippine Statistics Authority, last 14 April 2016 our OFWs are over 2.4 Million. Literally, most of them are working for their families. Some of them are having a homesick and stressed out because of the truth that their families are far from them, but they are trying to get used to it for their family. As a daughter, I can also see the trials of my parents to give us a good life. As I can see, a lot of parents out there or very frustrated to have money and to be rich. Since our country is not that rich, a lot of people can see their good future in different rich countries that’s why they choose to be an OFW. We have had heard a lot of news about the stress or problems of our OFWs but we never heard the problems of their families who were left behind. It is really not good to leave their family behind because it can affect the family relationship and their child’s mindset.

         Filipino families really do bond together a lot. We’re family-oriented and meal- oriented. Being a family-oriented, it can see the family traditions and families’ closeness on this one. It can help the family Filipinos strong and firm. Our Filipino families do breakfast together, lunch together and dinner together. We always love the idea of family meals. It is not only good for the child’s growth but also for their strong relationship. On the research of Dew, J. Britts and Houston, S. (2012) they said that if the financial issue comes to the point of the family, the members will be stressed and moody (RBFIDFR, 2012). Family problem is really a problem for the family and obviously it shows the decision of a parent to work abroad. Other countries have better opportunities and better salary that’s why parents chose to leave. Unfortunately, without a parent, it leads to unhealthy and unhappy family. A parent has a big role in the family and if it gone, slowly and surely the family relationship they’ve build will be gone too. One day, the family will not give importance to the family relations, traditions and closeness. To the child, it will lead to anti-social kid, low self-esteem and low self-confidence. The insecurities will win in the child’s mind that’s why even one parent left, it can change the child.

                A person has been provided with his or her own privacy and it’s their discretion on how to exploit it as part of our society. Parents have been the foundation of every child since he/she was born. Yet, as the child gets older and older the gap between the parent and child gets wider and wider, which is the sad truth. A teenagers’ life presently is way too distinguishable from their parents’ life before. But imagine a parent having a null idea about his/her child in their teenage life and how they deal with it can make a really big count. And should teen be allowed a ream of privacy away from the prying eyes of parents?

                Parenting is a responsibility and a big thing to deal with, as time passes by, lots of changes may transpire inside of the family. Parents tried to enter the zones of their teenager child and knowing that we are now living in the 21st century makes it more critical. We are aware that by the use of internet teenagers can never be disjointed with this. Social media accounts are very worthwhile in teenagers and it’s their way of exploring their freedom. Most parents tried to ask for their accounts at certain times or at least ask their child few personal questions. Well, it is quite abstract when parents get to know the things that their friends can only comprehend. The use of internet became very standard even at their very young age. -Here’s a real shocker: teens are better than their parents at using the Internet, and are likely to hide some of their online behaviors from them. That news comes from a 2,017- person survey funded by the online security software maker McAfee, which is pushing a product that helps parents monitor their kids online.

              Seventy percent of teens “hide their online behavior” from parents, according to the report, that’s up from 45% in 2010. These hidden behaviors include some things you might expect such as accessing violent (43%) or pornographic (32%) content online. According to the highlights of the CNN news here’s the list of teens who said they engaged in these behaviors, according to the survey results: clear browser history; close/minimize browser when parent walked in; Hide or delete IMs or videos; Use a computer your parents don’t check; Use privacy settings, most of these are up to 50% according to the survey. More than three-quarters of children ages 12 to 17 had cellphones as of 2012; almost half of those devices were smartphones with internet. The age at which children get their first mobile device is getting younger and younger too.

           According to Worldometer, as of 2016, Philippines’ population reaches 103 Million. We are not new to this big number telling us that our country is carrying millions of people. Based on the list of countries by population, the Philippines ranked number 12. We know for a fact that not all families are living a healthy and easy life. Some of the families are suffering and are having a lot of difficulties in life because of the big number of the members of each family. That is why, we shouldn’t disregard family planning for it can lessen poverty, decreases health problems and can help economic growth.

           Couples that are just starting off building their own family should consider family planning so they will not add up to the number of families that are experiencing poverty. According to Malcolm Potts from the Bixby Center for population, health and sustainability, the birth rates need to lower down to 2.2 percent so we will not experience over 150 million populations just in 10 years. Population is one of the many problems of every country. With family planning, couples can plan ahead how many kids they will be able to support financially such as their education. Also, with family planning, it allows women to plan spacing of pregnancies and can delay pregnancies in young women at increased risk of health problems, according to World Health Organization. A study from Europe states that countries in East Asia in particular, have benefited and an estimated 30-50% of the religion’s economic growth from 1965 to 1990 can be attributed to changes in population dynamics, which are strongly influenced by reproductive health services and contraceptives.

           Through family planning, couples could save up so they could be ready to the family they are building. In doing so, they can prevent staying in a dirty places because of the reason that they cannot afford buying a house in a safe and health area. They can avoid living in places where their children would easily get sick or catch diseases. On top of that, we do not want to reach the point when we could not break ourselves free of the state or poverty. We all want to live a comfortable life so let us do something to make it happen.

What is beauty?

         What is the real meaning of beauty? Beauty physically could be innate. It could be just how attractive a person is naturally like how they were born but I think that beauty is when you weren't born with perfect eyebrows, the best hair or the sharpest jawline but you still see yourself as a creature with beauty. When you improve your physical features to their full potential without altering it completely through cosmetics. In short, beauty is when you're given less but you make it the best and wear it with confidence. Some people are depending on the outside looks and some are looking for the curves of the body and even basing it on age, but that is not what beauty really means.

         Beauty is based on your inner soul and on how you use your virtues in a way your attitude is not much and not less. It can be seen naturally. Beauty is in our surroundings that God made in the first place but because of the irresponsibility of the people around the world its somewhat being wasted. In terms of beauty within a person, I still insist that we should have natural beauty. It’s not that we don't use make up but we shouldn't have a surgery to look more beautiful or attractive. Beauty begins the moment you decide to be yourself.

(Concept Paper)

Some may perceive a thing as a perfect one by the way it looks, but some may omit that the way it looks doesn't really define a perfect thing. At certain times the word perfect can be a definition of a family, which is one of the most important social groups we belong as we grow up and became part of the society. Throughout history, the word family has carried many different meanings. The terminology defines it as, “A family is a group of people who, in most cases, live together. They share their money and food and are supposed to take care of one other. But the idea of a perfect family defines its own reality and its illusion.

   Individuals may have their ideal family to live with. Do you even feel the pressure of comparing your own family with others without realizing that what you see doesn't really measure the idea of a perfect family? Sometimes people can compose "archetype" families that have seen somewhere or perhaps they have dreams on what an ideal family should a person have. For an instance a child is lucky to be raised in a happy and secured family with two loving parents. A perfect one may define as; Healthy family with parents who do not quarrel and living in a peaceful life and siblings who were always cooperative with parents; Life living with harmonious environment without conflict. Some child may be in a nuclear family with a father and a mother. It really sounds a perfect family for each of the member as the person whom they can trust and they can count on.

   As a bed time story goes," Once upon a time there lived a family. The family was a picture of peace and harmony. They had what they needed; their children were always obedient and never argued with each other. The parents never disagreed on anything, nor was there cause for conflict. Their home was the center of joy and orderliness at all times. Everyone who saw them just knew that they were perfect family and will live longer as a happy family", this story only shows that there is no such thing as "perfect family" every family will experience challenges, trials, characters deficiencies and more. It only shows the reality of an imperfect family, and some may consist of imperfect people. Yet the imperfection of a perfect family affects the child or the children more than the stage and conflict of the parents. Today different variations of family structures are endless, some child may have lived neither with their single moms nor with single dad or they lived with their foster families.

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“The Samurai” Adaptation- “Cut it out!”

We all get attached to parts of our writing that at first seem great but later on hinder the rest of our work. The chapter “The Samurai”, in Writing Down the Bones by Natalie Goldberg, delves into the topic of letting go. It is important, that while you can come up with what you think is an exceptional analysis at the time that you are able to go over your original thoughts and be able to cut out and be open to changing things that may not fit on a second glance. For an analysis of a piece of literature or a scientific paper it is better to go straight to the point instead of fluffing your writing with unnecessary fillers that will guide you away from the idea of what you are trying to analyze. Once you have your topic at hand and are able to write about it then you can see what details are important and which you can leave out. For example, say you are analyzing Victors character in Mary Shelly’s Frankenstein and his inability to take responsibility for his actions and somehow stray upon his obsession with old style natural philosophy. Somehow you have started analyzing his obsession with mystic science and totally abandoned your original thesis. If you only interject a line or two that was not supporting your argument or analysis then you should probably bring yourself to eliminate them and continue on with evidence that will make your analysis stronger instead of straying the reader’s attention to other details you did not intend them to stray to. If your second analysis is growing to great lengths and you find yourself more engaged and ready to provide evidence after evidence for this new thesis then you should probably throw away the original thesis and build with this new idea. The purpose of “The Samurai” is to be able tell yourself it is okay to start over and change ideas. The strategy is to be honest with what works and what can be taken out. Another example would be if you find a piece of evidence that supports your analysis. It could be a beautiful line in the novel and you decided to write your analysis surrounding that one line. Later, you find that perhaps that line was not as strong of evidence as you originally thought but you find something much simpler that works. You have to bring yourself to be able to make that swap that will contribute the most to your writing, because I know personally I have fallen for beautiful lines that I thought would work but realize that I only wanted them in there because they were beautiful and not because they would support my analysis. It all boils down to edits. Be able to revise and tear apart your paper to get down to the significant aspects that will deliver the message you are trying to convey. If you find yourself getting lost and meandering from your analysis just think of a samurai and “cut it out!”

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