"Maybe it is time we stop regarding victims of abuse as just victims but also potential abusers. In this way maybe, just maybe we can offer a safe space for abuse victims to not only release the pain associated with their trauma but also to recognise all the other toxic ways they learnt as defense mechanism or the norm during the abuse. Abuse is never the victims fault but the healing is definitely the victim’s RESPONSIBILITY ... taking the responsibility for ones healing is a very crucial stage…when the victim rejects the responsibilty to heal, they risk becoming the abuser or a bystander to abuse" Read more of this article, I wrote exploring the idea of personal healing as the only way to end all kind of abuse Find link in bio. Love and light 💜 #survivingRkelly #healingpersonaltrauma #endingabuse #healing #childhoodtrauma https://www.instagram.com/p/BsX3t0hBOUi/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=zosbrdgs8mlu
