Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
âś“ Live Streamingâś“ Interactive Chatâś“ Private Showsâś“ HD Qualityâś“ Free Actions
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
was crying while talking abt my adhd to my brother for the first time and talking abt hyperfixations and how i have low dopamine and he left my room and came back with all of the hannibal funky pops and said “dopamine” and i’ve been crying for ten minutes
I can’t be fucking normal about you. I almost resent you for your obliviousness, because I take it as a rejection. Fuck, I claw at any piece of you I can get, I have to try to not check your every available movement and you know it, don’t you?
Arguing with people who say "You can't tell who is and who isn't trans! For some, you wouldn't even know unless they told you!" is like
jumpscare under the cut
Me: That is a younger person wearing makeup to look like an old person.
Pedantic Asshole: Ummm how can you tell it's not an old person?
Me: I can see? I can see that it's a younger person attempting to appear older.
PA: But what is it exactly that makes you think this is a young person?
Me: Fuck, I, I dunno, his eyes. You can see that he just did some stuff around them.
PA: His eyes.
Me. And his facial shape, the wrinkles aren't natural looking.
PA: Eyes and face shape, huh? Are you talking about phrenology? The racist pseudoscience???
Me: No! His shapes are wrong, I don't know how to explain it! This guy's a blatant example but you can still tell even when the budget is high and the makeup's good. There's always something that unravels the costume!
PA: Plenty of old people look like he does, you're a bigot who probably got confused because he dyes the gray out of his hair. Look at her - how can you say you can tell who's old and who isn't? Would you really offer her a senior discount?
Me: Dolly's purchased a LOT of decorative surgery, and you've presented me with a carefully composed, edited, and costumed photo. What the fuck is going on with her stomach and palms? It's possible I wouldn't be able to tell due to the limits of media (though I can here, jeez) but I'd be able to tell in real life! Her voice, her body language, her actual language - something would tell me that I am talking to an old person!
PA: Do you HEAR yourself? Do you hear yourself policing other people's identity and self expression? You only knew she was old because she's famous. If you saw this woman in the store, you wouldn't even know. Stop insulting these poor people. What about progeria.
Me typing something up before I hitting the reply button and realizing I've been blocked: I wasn't insulting anyone, I was saying I was aware that they were trying to alter what age they appeared to be.
Anya is live and ready to show you everything. Watch her strip, dance, and perform exclusive shows just for you. Interact in real-time and make your fantasies come true.
âś“ Live Streamingâś“ Interactive Chatâś“ Private Showsâś“ HD Qualityâś“ Free Actions
Free to watch • No registration required • HD streaming
You are completely missing my point, I am not saying they're right, I'm saying silencing them because they are wrong is still wrong. What I'm saying is that their opinions don't /hold up/ in fair debate an that's why in a free society everyone is and should be entitled to an opinion, even if that opinion is wholly wrong. It's how freedom works. I have no problem, and stated as such, with you attempting to reason with this person and warn people. The issue I have is with you reporting people.
You are completely missing my point, I am not saying they're right, I'm saying silencing them because they are wrong is still wrong.
You are missing the point in that we try to educate the people we find on why they are wrong. We are not active silencers, we are a warning system, we will warn everyone else about this person's behavior and those people are free to make their own decision and avoid someone who now refuses to treat them with respect.
What I'm saying is that their opinions don't /hold up/ in fair debate an that's why in a free society everyone is and should be entitled to an opinion, even if that opinion is wholly wrong.
A wholly wrong opinion is an opinion which will get people to challenge them. It is an opinion that no one should hold. Stop implying that racists and homophobes get a right to think these things, it is 2014. No one should think like this.
It's how freedom works.
That is not how freedom works.Â
I have no problem, and stated as such, with you attempting to reason with this person and warn people. The issue I have is with you reporting people.
Where do you even think we've actually reported someone on tumblr? We are a warning system. We warn others about others' bad behavior. I have personally as a mod have not blocked anyone because if they learn and would like to apologize, they need a line of communication with which to do that.Â
You are still trying to use your bisexuality as an excuse. You are directly enabling behavior of bigots by giving them a space with which to do to. Education is important, but if the person refuses to learn, they don't deserve a space with which to communicate to people that they harm.Â
"The types of “opinions” that land you here devalue, hurt, and get plenty of people legitimately bullied, and killed every day." Could you please explain it to me how disagreeing with the purpose of this blog gets people 'bullied and killed'?
I’m going to be frank and ask you if you have any reading comprehension, or if you like twisting sentences to try to find something wrong with them.
That sentence is explicitly clear and easy to understand.
People end up here because the are openly and unapologetically racist, sexist, homophobic, and so on. Do you know what gets people bullied, and killed? Sexism. Homophobia, Racism. Transphobia as well. Thus, the people who hold these harmful views and openly spread them contribute to a society which still discriminates and finds reasons to kill people based on traits they cannot control and are born with.
By disagreeing with the purpose of this blog, you create a safe space for people to continue spreading harmful views which have and continue to get people consistently killed, or make them feel worthless enough to take their own life.