#emdiscussion

how did/do you feel about discovering your plurality? how did community expectations influence it? were you ever made to feel like the way you discovered your plurality was "wrong" (being told you're too young/old to know that, etc)? are there aspects of your plurality that made you doubt being "really" plural? do you wish any part of your syscovery had gone differently?

how open are you about plurality? has this changed for you over time? how does your openness differ across various contexts (online spaces, friend groups, workplace, family, school)? have you felt pressured to share more about your system than you're comfortable with--and/or pressured to not share as much as you would like?

how does communication work in your system? can everybody communicate equally well, or is it easier for some system members than others? did you experience communication with system members before you knew you were plural? what's a unique method of communication you use with your system members?