it was before star and tom wedding and both were having their bachelor party, but foe tom's party things got out of hand and woke up with a huge hangover. AND RIGHT BEFORE THE WEEDING yikes but fast forward few years later, star's expecting with Nar and everything is chill untill a child is presented in their front gate asking to see her father, basiclly elpis is the result of a drunken one night stand, and after living her short life in shitty household desiceded to find her father to better take care of her (how she knows tom her father? her bio mom wouldn't stop bragging how she slep with the king of the underworld before his big day to her, she only saw saw el as a trophy and another mouth to feed, aka not the best mom). this reveal caused a huge fight with star and tom and it seamed the end of their marriage fortunally they were able to get over it for the sake of their child (chilren soon) and probably couple conseling but hey this isn't about them its about our starberry child, she doesn't why everyone thought she was gonna hate the baby because she was the heir(subtitue for mewni) and el was a mongrel, but it was the opposite, she was introduced to her baby sister and when offered to hld her, she started crying;
"she's so small,."whimpered el, realizing how fragil Nar is was about to live in this world, the cruel world that el was soo familiar with it and shaped her choice on joining the underworld army and to thrive to become a crown gruard to be able to protect her sister better.