yk what i want to talk about. how i keep getting thrown out of fics bc shane's passivity in the bedroom is prjected over the rest of his life and their relationship which is a disservice to his role as THE mover and shaker... HE IS THE DO-ER!! he approaches a stranger to say hi, he gets on his knees without prompting, he buys the dildo, he asks the questions, he says lol just kidding i need a girlfriend let me go find one real quick, ok that didn't work but that's how we learn don't sweat, he gets a stylist, he says hey im gay now and also here's how the rest of our lives are going to go
which is not to say i think ilya is passive either, but he likes to feint.... and one step forward two steps back is not the same as shane squaring his shoulders and only way out is through-ing it. let him do this.... let shane do stuff please..........
