a big thing with a lot of what dreams saying falls into stuff i’ve communicated to my therapist about. mainly being, who owes you communication in a situation like this? is it owed to him to get responses to people that don’t like him? is it owed to him communication about situations he is directly involved in from people who don’t like him? from people who don’t want to talk to him? (tommy having blocked dream)
it’s honestly so tough to say, especially with no one knowing truly what’s happened bc so much of it is private and between the CCs personally.
but it really comes down to, do these people owe dream this communication, and if not, where do you go from here?
if they do, i feel like this could all be easily avoided. let people tell dream that his actions have made them upset, and then he takes accountability and then they move on.
if they don’t, truly, they should stop talking about dream then. leave him alone, move forward and beyond that time in your life. is it fair to keep talking about him? i mean, sure, in private circles.
very tough, especially with all of this being so public. everyone should just state who they like/dislike and then not interact with people who they dislike, or keep interacting with people they do like.