[Transcript: "Ben knew the risks that came with his job, Dad," Judith said gently. "We all did. The day he left for Starfleet Academy, we knew we might have no deal with the possibility that he'd never come home."
"Don't talk to me about risks," Dad snapped. "He wasn't killed by the Tzenkethi or vaporized by the Borg or blown to hell by the Dominion. Even that I could accept. I could make peace with it and move on. But he was taken from us, Judith. That damn planet and those so-called prophets took him away from everything he loves, and everyone that loves him. And still they weren't satisfied. They had to take my grandson, too."
"We don't know that, Dad. What happened to Jake, wherever he is, it may have nothing to do with Ben."
He scowled at her. "Maybe you can convince yourself of that. I can't. The boy's ship disappears the moment it leaves for Earth, and you want me to believe it has nothing to do with that damned thing...that wormhole?"
Her father shook his head, muttering, "I told him not to take that assignment. Seven years ago, I told him. Stay on Mars, I said. Build ships. At least you'll be close to Earth. Or forget Starfleet and just come home. He wasn't over Jen's death. He needed more time. But he went anyway, and what's worse is that he took Jake with him to that floating junkyard. Now they're both gone." He buried his face in his hands. "God forgive me, sometimes I wish Ben had never been born."
"Dad, you don't mean that-"
"Sometimes I do," he confessed, eyes welling up with tears as he spoke. "I know I shouldn't, but I can't help it. They did it, Judith. They made him. Used me and Sarah both just so we'd bring Ben into the world, so that years later they could use him. Like they used me. Like they've used all of us." /end transcript.]
Thanks to Book!Joseph Sisko for voicing some of my issues with Sisko's finale in "What You Leave Behind". I particularly want to highlight "That damn planet and those so-called prophets took him away from everything he loves, and everyone that loves him," and "They made him. Used me and Sarah both just so we'd bring Ben into the world, so that years later they could use him. Like they used me. Like they've used all of us."