#dontghost

To put it simply the idea of ghosting pisses me off quite a bit. I don’t get why people aren’t able to just say their feelings have changed or that they don’t have a shared interest anymore in the relationship (no matter the level of investment/time.) Sure, being upfront and real about it can be hard. It could mean hurting someone you care for or the fear of a hard conversation, or quite frankly it might just seem annoying. But to blunt, those are just excuses and immaturity. Why make someone guess what they did wrong? Worry about why they weren’t good enough? What they could of done to make the situation work? And any other what ifs. For your own selfish satisfaction of being done with the person and not doing the right thing? Just don’t do it. Don’t be that person. Just tell people how you feel, and what you want (or don’t want).

I leave you with lyrics to one of my favorite songs, Peter Pan performed by Kelsea Ballerini. I’ve felt this one before. Ive felt the sting of the boy just flying away and not telling you goodbye. Don’t do it. Don’t put someone through it. And girls, I’m talking to you too.

“You're always gonna fly away, just because you know you can

You're never gonna learn there's no such place as Neverland

You don't understand

You'll never grow up

You're never gonna be a man