I’m Not Mad. I’m Done—and That’s Different.
People often mistake being done for being angry.But anger is loud. Reactive. Charged.This isn’t that.This is what happens when you finally stop pouring energy into situations that drain you. When you realize you’ve been loving harder, trying more, and carrying relationships alone—and you decide not to do that anymore.You’re not upset.You’re clear.Clear that peace matters more than attachment.Clear that mutual effort isn’t too much to ask.Clear that love shouldn’t feel like constant self-sacrifice.Being done doesn’t come with explosions or explanations. It comes with quiet detachment. With stepping back without resentment. With choosing yourself without needing anyone else to understand.This isn’t bitterness.It’s closure without conversation.And it’s one of the strongest places to stand.
