#being done

I know ive mentioned it here before but a friend of mine made me start thinking about it again last night

I NEVER thought i would have help with this project

I thought i'd be doing it all alone and it'd all just be be 💀 I would have never made this much project if not for my friends

Shrouded shards would be cooked if i hadnt joined that fan server. Im not even IN that server anymore brooo

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Being done is not the same as giving up.

Being done is that feeling that where you are now, who you are, what you are working at or on, does not suit you.

This moment isn’t right.

This place.

This time.

These shoes.

Okay, maybe the shoes are fine, but nothing is actually okay right in this moment because you feel…done.

Fed up.

This isn’t the same as burnt out. Burnt out is the sign of being too far gone and having no idea and every idea of how you got there at the same time and no idea how to fix it so usually serious illness or injury tries to fix it for you….being done, being fed up, is actually a far more positive thing.

Being fed up with your situation, being done with how you are being treated or how you feel is a good thing.

It’s a sign of healing and growth.

Really. I’m serious.

The first step to changing a situation that isn’t making you happy or helping you feel something positive about yourself, is knowing that you don’t want to put up with the way things are anymore.

This is the “I’m not going to take it anymore moment”

You are done.

So, now that you are done, what do you want?

How do you want to be treated?

What do you want to do?

What can you do to get to that want, that treatment, that do?

The healthy part of being done is that usually when you get to the I am so done part you are not at the long drive off a short pier point.

You are instead at the point where you know you are worth more, better, something.

That is the opposite of the long drive off a short pier point.

So hold onto being done.

Hold on to being fed up.

Gather some strength from it and realize that you are important and worthy and capable and all the wonderful things that mean that your current situation can be something that you are done with…and that you can seek out something new, something that suits you better, something that makes you feel better…

That doesn’t mean it’s suddenly easy.

Doesn’t mean the changes necessary are quick…though sometimes it does. Sometimes the universe is just waiting for you to be done to provide an opportunity to do something else, something more, something better.

It does mean that you know you are worth more than what you are experiencing now.

So, write down what you are done with.

I, am done, so done, with this thing.

I do not want this thing.

I do not like this thing.

This thing makes me feel however the way the thing makes you feel.

What I want is ________________________________

How I want to feel is _____________________________

What can I do to start going towards or doing or having what it is that I want?

What can I do to start feeling the way I want to feel?

See there. That’s it, you are done with everything as it is currently and you have a plan towards what you want moving forward.

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