#dol plus

i tried my best to use the DoL-P mods despite the trial and error i really love the results

I recently started a new game on DoL+ to collect all feats from zero, I've been playing for 365 days in-game (around 218 hours in-real) and raised almost all my skills with AMC (SSS and and such). I've now set my sight on getting the sadomasochist feat.

BUT, despite easily getting max sadism, I can't seem to raise my masochism???

I checked my stats and have 31 points in but no matter what I try it won't raise anymore.

I've played DoL a LOT before, I know that cumming while being hit or in pain will say "Your body yearns and writhes for more pain" and that raises it; but I've tried with Leighton and similar encounters, high arousal, high pain and it won't raise?