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1. IDOLATRY: You delight in someone else more than you delight in the Lord. Your love for God should be foremost in your heart, exceeding the bond of any other relationship. 

Jesus identified the greatest of all commandments:

"and you shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind, and with all your strength." (Mark 12:30).

2. Your soul does not long for times of rich fellowship in God’s Word or prayer. When your mind, will, and emotions wander from devotion to God, watch out. Your relationship with God deepens as you spend time in His Word and commune with Him in His Word and prayer. If you forsake this fellowship, your understanding of your true condition before God will grow dull. As God’s children, His friends, and His bride (Mat. 5:44–45, James 2:23, John 15:15, and Rev. 21:9), it is critical that we draw near to Him to engage in our relationship with Him. (James 4:7–8.)

3. Your thoughts in leisure moments do not honor the Lord. The things that captivate your thoughts in leisure moments reveal much about the priorities of your heart.  The Apostle Paul instructed us, “Whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things” (Phil. 4:8).

4. You make excuses for doing things that displease the Lord, claiming to be “only human". God wants you to dedicate your life to Him as a “living sacrifice” (Romans 12:1–2), discerning His will in all things and walking in obedience to Him. As your Good Shepherd, He will lead you “in the paths of righteousness for his name’s sake” (Psalm 23:3).

There is no excuse for disobeying the Lord. His grace is sufficient to rescue you from every temptation. ( I Cor. 10:13.) The truth is, “Every man is tempted, when he is drawn away of his own lust, and enticed. Then when lust hath conceived, it bring forth sin: and sin, when it is finished, bring forth death. Do not err, my beloved brethren” (James 1:14–16).

Your obedience to God demonstrates your love for Him. Jesus said, “If you love me, keep my commandments” (John 14:15). “If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love” (John 15:10).

5. You do not willingly and cheerfully give to God’s work or to the needs of others. Generosity is part of God’s holy character: “For God so loved the world, that he gave . . .” (John 3:16), and He “loves a cheerful giver” (2 Cor. 9:7). Therefore, “whoso hath this world’s good, and see his brother have need, and shut up his hearts of compassion from him, how he can say that the love of God is in him?” (I John 3:17). As believers, we are to love and give—even to our enemies. (Luke 6:27–36, Romans 12:20, and Matthew 5:42.) We can do this only by the grace of God, as He renews our minds and teaches us to walk in obedience to His Word resident in our souls..

6. You cease to treat others as you would treat the Lord. Jesus said, “A new commandment I give unto you, That you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another” (John 13:34). “Love one another” is not a suggestion; it is a command that we are enabled to fulfill by the power of the Holy Spirit in our lives. Do you find that you are quick to judge and condemn others? Consider God’s love for you and His command that you love others with His love. 

“Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins. Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another” (I John 4:10–11).

7. You view Christ's commands as restrictions to your happiness rather than expressions of His love.God’s commandments, the words of your wise and caring Father, lead you toward what is good and away from what is evil. “He that hath my commandments, and keep them, he it is that love me: and he that love me shall be loved of my Father, and I will love him, and will manifest myself to him” (John 14:21).  

Obedience to His commandments brings true freedom and joy. (John 8:31–32, 36.)

8. You strive for affirmation from the world rather than approval from the Lord.

Jesus faced misunderstandings and rejection because of His obedience to God, and you will face similar situations. “If you were of the world, the world would love his own: but because you are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hate you” (John 15:19).

“Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. And the world passes away, and the lust thereof: but he that do the will of God abide forever” (I John 2:15–17).

9. You fail to make Christ or His words known because you fear rejection. If your faithfulness to God depends on the reaction of those around you, you are serving men instead of serving God 

(Galatians 1:10.)  Jesus’ obedience to God aggravated many people, including the religious leaders of his community. “Remember the word that I said unto you, The servant is not greater than his lord. If they have persecuted me, they will also persecute you; if they have kept my saying, they will keep yours also” (John 15:20).

Be faithful to proclaim the truth in love, because God “had said, I will never leave you, nor forsake you. So that that we may boldly say, The Lord is my helper, and I will not fear what man shall do unto me” (Hebrews 13:5–6).

10. You refuse to give up an activity that you know is offending a weaker brother.

In every generation, Christians seek God’s will concerning discretionary activities.  “Everyone of us shall give account of himself to God. Let us not therefore judge one another any more: but judge this rather, that no man put a stumbling block or an occasion to fall in his brother’s way.

I know, and am persuaded by the Lord Jesus, that there is nothing unclean of itself: but to him that esteem any thing to be unclean, to him it is unclean. But if your brother be grieved with the meat, now you walk not in love. Destroy not him with your meat, for whom Christ died” (Rom. 14:12–15, 12:10 and Phil. 2:3–8.)

11. You become complacent toward sinful conditions around you. Jesus warned that “because iniquity shall abound, the love of many shall wax cold” (Mat. 24:12).

Witnessing the sinfulness of the world around you should motivate you to follow after God with even greater determination. “Be sober [discreet], be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walking about, seeking whom he may devour; whom resist steadfast in the faith” (I Peter 5:8–9).

12. You are unwilling to forgive your offenders.

“If a man say, I love God, and hate his brother, he is a liar . . .” (I John 4:20).

Holding a grudge against another person indicates that you have lost sight of the greatness of God’s forgiveness of your sin and your need for His grace. (Matthew 18:21–35.)

Bitterness is the natural fruit of unforgiveness.

As believers, we are to “follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord: Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled” (Hebrews 12:14–15).

A spirit of forgiveness is essential to the Christian. Jesus said, “If you do not forgive, neither will your Father which is in heaven forgive your trespasses” (Mark 11:26).

A prayer of ancient Israel’s leader, Moses, gives us insight into the goal of keeping our first love: “Now therefore, I pray thee, if I have found grace in thy sight, show me now thy way, that I may know thee, that I may find grace in thy sight” (Exodus 33:13).

The longing of our hearts should be to know God, to know Him intimately.

…That is the reason for knowing His ways and His will: to know Him. And this is God’s promise to His children: “Ye shall seek me, and find me, when ye shall search for me with all your heart. And I will be found of you . . .” (Jeremiah 29:13).