• Alters are real and aren’t just personalities.

• Every alters feelings are valid.

• A PERSECUTER IS NOT A VILLAIN AND HAVE VALID FEELINGS TOO.

• People with DID still having feelings and are people

• Having littles is not a fucking kink.

• Fictives aren’t JUST a video game character or a person from a show, they are also people, like you and me. TREAT THEM AS SUCH.

• No alter has to tell you anything.

• Littles aren’t full on babies and toddlers and don’t need your sight of hand with EVERY SINGLE STEP.

• Just because you have imaginary friends doesn’t mean you have DID.

But FUCK MAN. it's like you can't say anything that falls into classic experiences of a covert system without it being beat down by heavily aware or overt systems. (I won't say fake... but.... that's how it feels a lot of times....)

Circles that used to feel safe, here and other social medias, don't feel so anymore. If you aren't a system with 30+ alters who fully understand themselves, sign their posts with a personal tag, then you get brushed off as inferior.

Like actually fuck off and kick some damn rocks man. I am not anti self diagnosis because it is truly all that is available to a large portion of the community, but God do I get frustrated at the times I'm treated as invalid for a diagnosis that took until I was 28 years old. After years and years of being dismissed and finally having 2 therapist finally clock on to us. Even then I froze in panic and denied denied denied it was true. Fought for my life to prove I DIDNT have this. Until it reached a point I couldn't avoid the facts anymore.

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You can’t change my mind, Child alters are Children, They are to be treated the same as you’d treat a “actual” child. With respect, love and actually like their age. If the body is 18+ it doesn’t mean you have a pass to be predatory with them because of that, You don’t treat them like something from a kink or a fake model child.   

They.Are.not.toys.

They are Children, The children we may have never gotten to be. Another chance to give someone what you didn’t have, They are Valid, Teen or little. They have a right be children, they have a right to be alive and free.