#dicktalk

A few quick statements after some anon related posts and what may be policing related responses I read today:

- it is my feminist duty to lust. For millennia, women have been told we should not lust. We should not enjoy sex etc (only to ostracise us if we do not allow men to do whatever they please with our bodies). This is not natural! It is human nature to lust, to desire. Patriarchal structures have been stopping this, for reasons only driving from fear, power, and knowledge that they suck in bed (and not in a good way). So, when I see policing going on, guess how this is qualified in my head...

- For millenia, men were restrained from being the object of lust. Even if they desired to be so.

- It is only since the last few generations we are democriticing both. All because we as women can finally be financially independent.

- I believe Austin is deliberately not present on social media, or in the political discourse, for a range of reasons. That includes allowing himself to be a vessel for directors and their vision, and allowing fans/viewers to project their own 'views' on him. Smart you could say, although I do yearn to learn his political views (or not...). I also believe he knows what he does by showing skin and outlines of his body. Thinking anything else is effectively saying he does not know what he does. Could be the case for a single wardrobe malfunction, but not if it is that consistent.

Well, guess how I combine these thoughts - a dirty mind is a joy forever 😘

A post following dm's with @peageetibbs-ab and @mani-pedro

Y'all complaining about anons who are speaking about Austin and potential gf's. May I just say that I have the best anon's who speak about (nearly) naked Austin and his 'groin' area? Keep it coming anon's.

Keep it coming.

For the very same reason I don’t get along with girls/women. I am not polite, I don’t care, I am easily entertained, just about everything flies. Sitting talking about “what size is my dick”, “what’s the smallest you’ve had”, “the biggest”, “you wanna know some old memories about sharing a room”, talking about wanting to whip it out to check size… Omfg. Rotflmfao And I can see having to explain to my husband, “you know what we did today..?” Oh he would strangle someone.

Told the boys once I was called a starfish. The reason was for the fact my ex was just too small… Nick then says, “Like that starfish in Finding Nemo? ‘What’s going on here?’ ” Started laughing I just about spit my tea everywhere. Then he says, “Stay golden ponyboy.”

Continued: + not want to hear about your sex life with men because sometimes we don’t have that choice at all. Like in a family dinner or something. And I’m not allowed to even mention my girlfriend… some of them don’t even know I have one. So it makes me REALLY mad when bi people complain about their lesbian friends that don’t want to hear about them dating men… the world already makes us hear about this all the time you know.————-I agree, it can be really overwhelming to constantly hear about sex with men in a heteronormative world. I am greatly appreciative when my fri mad who are attracted to men talk to me about a variety of experiences and subjects. But women should be allowed to say there are subjects and topics that make them uncomfortable. Straight and bi women discussing details of sex with men isn’t a conversation lesbians are obligated to be part of. And I’m saying this as someone who is usually okay hearing any of the details of someone needs help or advice.

I’m so sorry that you aren’t able to be open about your relationship. That must feel really isolating and exhausting to hear others be open and obtrusive when you can’t even express your love on a basic level.

On a personal note, I do think this is going to be my last post on this subject today. I have a lot in my inbox and I would like to focus on some of them at the moment.

Your boundaries are okay too. If someone not wanting to hear about heterosexual intercourse means they wouldn’t be a good friend to them, then you probably shouldn’t be friends with them. You’re entitled to your own opinion.

Some women do indeed react badly if you ask them not to give you graphic details of their sex with men. I’ve said “I’m uncomfortable with hearing some of these details” before and been told things like “99% of women are attracted to men, grow up and get over yourself”.

If you can’t understand why lesbians might not like hearing about that stuff, that is honestly your problem and not theirs. Bi women are perfectly welcome to be attracted to men without needed to have everyone hear details about their sex lives. Which is what “talking about dick” means.